Take it easy. . . I was only offering a stereotypical synopsis of corny soap operas. . . and in those soap operas, it's always those chumpy guys that pour their hearts out to romantic victory. I'm just saying that this rarely exists in real life.
Then why are you doing it?
^If you really thought this, shouldn't you be satisfied with the "OK" gig?

You don't need inner game, outer game, upper game, or lower game. Just learn to shut your mouth and take it easy once in a while. Less is more. Not sure what you do at the hedge fund but even trumping up investments/sales requires a little bit of silence once in a while. Listening is more important than talking. Understanding is more important than knowing. Harmony is better than dissonance.

lol, spoken like a true G!!! hahahah

no I agree, I have this bad habit of messing shit up by doing too much.....definitely need to take on the mantra of less is more. I guess with this particular chick, I've now gone past the point of caring (in terms of what she wants), I need to be myself as I really haven't for the last 7-10 days and it has really affected me to the point where I couldn't sleep properly and I was doing stupid shit in work! losing 250k in one day is never a good look!! lol

anyway, I'm happy to say, I talked to a fair few chicks tonight.......k-closed one but that was like so easy as she was staring at me on the dancefloor and then her and her friend were grinding me so obviously their intent was out there. She was actually a bit crazy as she started putting my hand on her pussy (outside her clothes) whilst we were still on the dancefloor to the point I had to be, whoa, I only really wanted to kiss!!! Had to give it ye old, i'll be back in 10 mins.......honest! but she was like a 7.5 at max!


More interestingly, I made one of my old classmates (HB9) cry by mistake!!! Not my fault, she was trying to call me out about my ex and why we are still close and I flipped it on her and started changing everyone of her questions to her situation. ie why are you 29 and only had a relationship lasting a few months etc etc.......it wasn't my intent to actually attack her, I was merely curious however, I definitely hit a raw nerve.....ooopps!! Anyway, given her HB10 (well maybe nine since she has a c crawford mole) was all up in my friends business, I thought I should really try and fix the situation but I'm actually thinking, she looked pretty hot tonight so I might try and turn this situation to my advantage!


@kasabi; on closer inspection, I think I was very defensive........thought maybe some of the pics were uncalled for lol.......the fonz tho........living legend!!!! anyway, I am trying to change the dynamic of the interactions to something similar to our earlier interactions.....i.e lots of innuendo and banter therefore, that's why I'm not trying to show her what's in my heart. Thinking about what you said about OK.......maybe that's my insecurity getting out there as i think that deep down I didn't want to just say OK because I fear her thinking, is that all you're going to say, well i'm going back with my ex. But that's fuckin irrational. a) if she's going to go back with her because of that then I've probably had a lucky escape and b) if she's going to flip a switch on that one comment then probably i need to steer clear anyway lol

but above all else, i needed tonight like the fuckin deserts need a monsoon!!!!! hahahaha i was very tempted to take that chick outside and bang her, but honestly, the night was so good i couldn't be fucked!! ahhahaahah

the first three posters gave you the proper advice.

While(gaming_new_chicks)
{
if (freeze out) then regame;
else move_on
}

this thread recommending caveman material and other tricks and zen like revelations is superfluous.

How?