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| Martinv678 | PostPosted: Mon Nov 28, 2011 3:57 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Nov 28, 2011 3:50 pm Posts: 1 | | I am new to the site so go easy on me! I recently went to a bar and met this waitress who was giving the eye the whole time I was there. After beating my AA I asked for her number and she was happy to give me her number. We text and have talked a couple of times but as my game is so weak I found it hard to talk to her about stuff that isnt whats shes doing? Hows she is etc?
What advice could you anyone give to make sure wants to meet again?
I try not to text to much as I dont wanna seem eager but do you think when we talk I should be as flirty as possible?
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| Snarg | PostPosted: Mon Nov 28, 2011 4:11 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Fri Apr 08, 2011 11:55 pm Posts: 1273 | | Try not to focus on really talking about anything tangible. Call her up and tell her a funny story, then get her to go somewhere with you. Be careful with your wording.
Good:
"Listen. On Friday I'm thinking about going to Hooters. Want to come along?"
Note: Don't actually choose Hooters as your restaurant of choice.
Bad:
"Do you want to go to Hooters with me?"
The goal is to make it look like she's tagging along with you, not that you are asking her out on a date.
And yes, in a scenario like this, texting should only be used as a way of escalating. Flirt quickly then get out. Don't text too much.
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| EddieFews | PostPosted: Mon Nov 28, 2011 4:40 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sun Oct 10, 2010 9:47 pm Posts: 1828 Website: http://WWW.LoveIsTheVerb.com Location: NYC |
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