I met a girl almost a month ago and we have been hanging out once or twice a week since.
She has openly said she likes me, she says her mum likes me, and is always texting me so I feel like she is interested. But at the same time,
We have kissed once. And it wasn't very good.
Last night I was at hers watching a movie and we were cuddling for about 3 hours but no kissing or anything (we were basically falling asleep) anyway she was texting other guys in front of me the whole time. She knew I could see what she was doing and insisted they were just her friends. (the convoys sounded very flirty though)
And then when I was leaving she lent in for a kiss but then just gave me a grandma kiss and closed the door....
Before I could drive up the road I had a txt saying she hoped I had a good night etc etc and we are hanging out tomorrow afternoon.
Is she testing me or am I thinking tool much?

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms

This is somewhat your fault (sorry)

She's testing you, and from the sound of it, she should be testing you.

If you're saying your kiss with her wasn't very good, thats probably because when you kissed her, you didn't put you're all into it. It's the crucial moment that determines where the next step is, can't screw that up.

In her eyes, she finds you attractive, but still a boy.
She's testing you by texting her friends to tease you. Why?? Because you've been cuddling with her for 3 hours and you haven't made a move.

Do not expect the girl to make the move, your the man, you make the move, and she knows that.

You've got to show her why she should be with you.
You want her? Get her. Thats what she wants.

It's practically yours, you just gotta take the initiative.

Next time you hang out, be that man, or say good bye because she'll move on as soon she finds a man that can take initiative.

To answer your question: no you are not thinking to much, she's pushing your buttons, and it makes sense.

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Ok so all the advice I've gotten so far is pretty congruent that I need to man up and make a move, so I'm picking her up from work tomorrow. I will just step up when we hang out, I haven't really got any idea of what we are going to do though?
I was thinking of just grabbing something casual for dinner and going for a walk or something then going back to my house to watch a movie or something. I will just pin her down (in a not rape kinda way) and go for gold

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms

Tell her, next time you're alone with her...


You: On a scale from 1 to 10, with 10 being the best...Where do you rate yourself as a kisser?
Her: "whatever number she chooses" Why?

You: Really? an 8?? I would have rated it 5..maybe 6 tops..But, since you're kinda cute and have the personality to go along with it, I'd like to build you up to a 10...

And then wait a lil bit...then slowly move in......right when you're about to touch lips, stop.....make her pull you the rest of the way.

And Whatever number she chooses.....choose 1 or 2 below it...unless she chooses 10...tell her it was a 4 or 5 lol




Personally, I've had absolutely nothing but success when telling a girl she's a bad kisser....

Theres been times I asked a girl if she was a good kisser...and she said "of course I am.."
And I'd be like...yeah you look like the type that has a lot of practice..
then we'd go back and forth for a minute or 2..and I'd be like, so really...honestly..are you a good kisser? Then we'd kiss....and I'd tell her considering the amount of practice she's had, that was a terrible kiss.....Then there we are making out now..

I even got a few blowjobs from this one girl with the same exact routine....We left the bar...I'm taking her back to her house... She starts talking to me and my hand ends up between her legs..So I'm like....."Do you give good head?"
She said "Yes, I do.."

So I pulled into a car wash, whipped it out and boy did she prove she was good at giving head haha


But yeah man...If you want the girl...start escalating things with her before its too late