Guess what it is because of your personality. You failed 6 times because C&F DOESN'T"T FIT YOU. How more clearer do we need to make it. C&F works but only when it fits you. You said you used it right and yet if you did then it would have been part of WHO you are. C&F is not crap because it doesn't work for you. It works.

How so?

Don't get me wrong CF has worked for me. But I just think natural cocky comes from insecurity. Believe it or not, but when I was 12, I developed a natural cocky funny. Not for game, but just a general attitude. Got me plenty of attention and all, lot's of laughs. But when I grew up more and discovered the community and learned that Cocky Funny was actually a thing, I thought back to the days when I had a cocky personality and realized it was perhaps I wanted to brag, because no one else would say good things about me. So from that I determined cocky was just a form of bragging and spawned from an insecurity.

I did approve of how being cocky made being funny easier. But I think in general people take it way too far, be way too cocky and not funny, and that's what makes girls roll their eyes. I mean, when you be cocky with not too much to back it up with, generally people will roll their eyes. Cocky can also be seen as immature.

Cocky funny will work for some, but I generally dislike it unless its like 5% cocky 95% funny, then you probably got yourself a winner.

But I think being confident, humble yet seductive will supersede any cocky funny.

insecurity? i think cocky comes from successes with women, and super strong inner game.... I think i am the best at everything, with that being said sometimes being too cocky could backfire, that is why is better too mix it up with different things, calibration.

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C&F has nothing to do with bragging. When you brag you are bound to look and seem insecure. As bragging is a way to get attention form others, but its generally viewed in a negative light. This is not to say its not bad to brag but there is a time and place for it. I bet if you took out the bragging you will find you don't seem insecure.

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C & F is crappy because most guys do it wrong.

Exactly! dicklow respect for your nickname, lol, that is some strong inner game hahahaha!

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C&F is only crap if you don't know how to do it.

I'd rather be naturally C&F than use the same canned routines over and over and over and be a robot with no soul.

Do you know how many girls have been "cubed"? Pathetic.

unless u can do it right.

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hmmm okay, If you present C&F lines that are in-congruent with your personality, it is obviously going to have it's problems. Most of which have already been listed in the above posts. If you're being C&F to try and impress her, it'll most likely come off as try hardish behavior.

However If you're being C&F simply for the reason that you find it funny and fun, I think it's FANTASTIC. Nearly all people have a C&F aspect in their personality, of course no ones is going to be the same, so you get unique styles of C&F.

C&F is just a really intense flirting, Using C&F that is accustomed to your personality does a whole bunch of things. It displays a high level of confidence by showing you're willing to take a chance of losing her completely. It makes the conversation FUN. It makes her feel a lot stronger emotions than boring questions that you don't care about her answers too.

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Option 1 her: "I work in a hospital" you: "oh really how long have you worked there"
OR Option 2 her: "I work in a hospital" you: "A girl like you working in a hospital?! that sounds super dangerous"

As lame as that 2nd statement may be, it's still kept things interesting. boring questions that you actually don't care about will make the conversation DIE. I think questions are GREAT if you're interested in the answer and it's going somewhere that feels interesting and FUN for you. Both Option 1 and 2 are valid here, it completely depends on what you think is going to be more interesting and fun in the conversation.

Cocky Funny is playful.. it challenges the woman in a way that increases the sexual tension. Push the woman away(apply touch) and talk to her about boundaries... I once told this blonde girl to watch her hands and she told me no. Put it back on my shoulder.

C&F along with some humbleness has gotten me pretty far.

I never had any issues with C&F. The issues or problems with C&F people are pointing out are those that are against it, say it doesn't work, or what have you. C&F in no way makes you look like a jerk or what ever if it fits you and your personality. I been doing C&F for years and I never had a girl call me a jerk or an asshole. I had girls jokingly/playfully call me a jerk, but that's it.
C&F can be intense flirting but its not always is. C&F can be a lot of things. I used C&F in sexual ways to humorous ways depending on the conversation. I mean I have cheered people up using C&F before. C&F just makes things funnier and less boring in general.

It is so obviously false.

10 geezer points awarded, for somebody finally outing this bullshit.

Doing anything that is not natural to you is stupid.

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