| option 1) easier said then done, but the best way by far to handle anyone, is to fucking ignore the shit out of them, I know what you are thinking?, BUT THEN HE DOMINATES BUT THEN... BUT THEN... it is all in your head, if he is pissing you off, you are not ignoring him, if he is making you happy, you are not ignoring him, if you are answering his questions, you are not ignoring him,
ignore him, don't react to anything he does, if he enters the set, you really have about two choices, try to blow him out (just offer a social constraint that would allow for him to exit such as, peace or hey nice to meet you we will talk to you later, or this is not a good time come talk to us later, if he plows through this it is time for the next option), or accept him into the set, no matter what, everything can be handled by not reacting to him at all, he trys to insult you, don't punish him at all, don't have a witty comeback, your witty comeback is, cool man, and ignore him, he disagrees with you on an issue, your witty rebuttle is, I see, and then back to a new topic, focus on the girl not the cock block, if things are getting really bad and you are in rapport with the girl, just ask her, so who is this guy?, if she says I don't know, say do you like him? (this corners her), if she says yes then just eject yourself saying well come see me when you are done with this guy, then go talk to another girl, don't ever punish just withdraw, if you are chatting with the boys having fun reacting being a dick insulting people and qualifying for other people and lowering your value is all fine and dandy, but when your dick is on the line, don't get mad, don't get sad, don't react at all, don't punish, don't supplicate, DONT DO FUCK ALL FOR ANYONE, you lead your emotions not other people keep them under control, don't ask the cockblock questions don't even address him, if he is being really rude address the fact that he is being rude by using the above line on the girl ''so who is this guy/do you know this guy?'' followed by a look that says who the fuck is this retard?
option 2) be a dickhead, this leads to two outcomes, he is dominated and flees the set or gets embarassed, or you end up in a fight, this is why option 1 is the best option, unless you really don't mind fights, to eachs own, so here are some dickhead tactics for you
1)mymic what he says with a stupid voice to re-frame it, then follow up with an insult or negative frame for him to fall into
2)set up a social status roleplay or just place him into a frame that he will have to re-frame to progress if he is reacting to you, for example, HEY MAN THESE ARE MY HOOKERS YOU WANT TO BUY ONE? THEY ARE SUPER CHEAP, YOU LOOK LIKE THE PERFECT CUSTOMER, or LOOK AT THIS STUD HE CAME HERE TO PICK YOU GIRLS UP, WELL HERE IS YOUR SHOT MAN, THESE GIRLS ARE EASY, OK GUYS INTRODUCE YOURSELVES
3)bait and ignore, neg/bust on him just like you would a girl but a bit more harshly, then wait for him to react and keep ignoring as suggested in the first option, continually encourage him to get more angry and to try harder to insult you and react until he blows himself out
4)if he touches you, accuse him of being gay
5)maintain all your focus on not getting angry and reacting, or supplicating to him in a friendly I give up manner such as laughing at his jokes or seeking rapport with him
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