De-brief from last night!
• Closed a girl who was a 7 she said that confidence goes a long way rather than cockyness.
I’m guessing she meant that guys who man up and share their feelings or thoughts with a girl rather than hiding away using cheesy chat up lines.
This mean’s
Guy’s who walk up to a girl and say something from their core meaning i.e your sexy and You’ve caught my attention what’s your name, without fear = confidence
Guy’s who, half a heart about actually telling a girl how they feel towards her by being cocky or using a chat up line to win her over. (Let’s not get confused teasing a girl works, that’s not what I’m explaining. I’m talking about guys who think they have a hierarchy over everyone and act cocky about it) = cockyness
Remember having certain cockyness to a form of Teasing the girl, which from my experience is a form of flirting.
What I Mean to say is cockyness is more of an arrogant mindset, I think having a small degree of cockyness is good but balancing it that the girl knows you are doing it because it’s making her like you more rather than doing it out of spite.

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