call her?????????????????????//

You can't really start relying on advice for every step of the way

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I sent her a text..

ME: OMG There is WATER falling from the SKY!!
Her: Who is this?


I'm sitting here thinking of a good reply...



Then a few minutes later I got a text back, thinking it was her...


But it was my ex....wtf lol

you still haven't learned to listen hahah.. come on bro. I don't want to give up on you

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Man...you're right lol


I think she's at work right now, so I'll wait a lil while and give her a call..

Guess I'll try to carry the conversation a few minutes, then tell her that her plans for the weekend have been slightly changed to accommodate Dexter time with me on Sunday...hope all goes well...I do know that a lot of times, she can't watch it on Sunday because she works....So if that's the case, it comes on at 9pm and 11pm...So if she can't make either of those...I guess I'll ask when a good time for her would be, because I'd like to hang out...Clear that up...then get off the phone..

Does that sound good for the first call?

first phone call just talk to her... Get to know her.. Relax and just keeping talking.. 30-60 mins of solid conversation and she'll be texting you to say good morning when she wakes up.. at around 30 mins of talking suggest a meet. Really get to know her. She's losing her job, she could use someone.

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i called her...but she didn't answer......I didn't leave a message

I don't know if thats good or not...In retrospect, I probably should have left a message saying something like "Hey, its me...blah blah"

She'd probably recognize my voice, but if not that'd leave her like "who the fuck is 'me'??" lol

But yeah, I had a good idea tho...i wrote down an outline of the conversational points/topics incase i'd stumble and run out of things to talk about, i'd be able to look at that and continue right on to the next without bringing up something stupid, ya kno?

Anyway, I don't want to keep calling her..So I'll hit her up on face book later if shes on..and somehow make it a point that I called her for a reason, and since she didn't answer, she lost 3 points lol

your making it a bigger deal than it is, and thinking too much on the subject... So what if she didnt answer.. Its just a missed phone call.. That happens billions of times a day to billions of people. That should be something thats get a rise of questionable thoughts out of you..

Just call her again later.. its not a big deal. Forget the facebook chat, ESCALATE.. Move things to the next level. Thats what the phone call will accomplish.

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I just don't want to seem too needy or desperate for attention, fuze...thats all.

This girl knows my ex...ya kno, she knows my history with that...So I didn't want to come off like...I'm hitting her up a bunch of times like I'm in need of anything.

Obviously I'm no expert in this field, so I could be wrong, of course...But doesn't it usually convey, when you keep calling, that you're needy and what not?

its all in your belief system and how you handle it i guess. I will call a girl as many times as i want because i know im confident enough to handle the situation properly..

Do you see how you over analyze every instruction i give to you? because it goes against what "YOU" think is ok or what "YOU" think will work?

Now what has what "YOU" thought gotten you in the last situation i tried helping you out with.. You are really intelligent motown, and the worse part is your intelligence is your gift and your curse. Use it wisely, now if you over analysed how much a girl likes you because of the things she said and did instead of what you could be doing wrong or right, how much more do you think your game will improve?

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i feel like a dumbass sometimes..


I'm sitting here reading news and stuff online, and my phone rings...range twice and stopped.... Now where I sit at, at the computer, my phone service comes and goes, so its usually normal for me to be sitting here, then randomly look at my phone and see a missed call when it didnt even ring.....So I was like..aight..I'll call her back..

She answered the phone
Her: Hey! Motown! I'm sorry I didn't mean to call you, it was accident!!
Me: ahhhrrgghh alright, well now I got you on the phone, whats up?
Her: Did I just wake you up?
Me: What? *laughed* No..
Her: Well I'm at work..I get off at 10
Me: Well what are you getting into, you know Lisa and Adam are in town for the weekend, right?


So we talk for a minute about how those 2 want everybody to meet up with them, but they didnt let us know they were coming..so its all last minute blah blah

And she mentioned she has to work Friday morning, so she didn't really want to go out tonight..but she is off Saturday and would rather go out Friday night..

She asked if I was going out tonight to meet up with Lisa and adam, I said no...(Im kinda stranded at the moment,,)

But it was like I froze up....her greeting threw me off.. Part of me felt, maybe she didn't mean to call...but then another part of me knows that sometimes I lose signal and my phone doesn't receive calls or texts sometimes..

So after we talked a minute about the shit I mentioned, and another one of our friends who just had a kid...I was like "Well, look...I'm guna get off here, but when you figure out what you're guna do, let me know..I'd like to go out with ya"

She said ok...that she was going to find out whats going on, and get back to me either tonight or tomorrow...

So hopefully I did better than I feel lol....It really just surprised me.

She responds to my texts, but we don't really talk much thru that...She didn't answer any of my calls the other week, or whenever I called her..assuming it was just bad timing...And she hasn't been on facebook much this week..

But anyway, Im hoping all goes well and I can get her here on Sunday too after she enjoys herself tomorrow night lol

i'll be honest bro..

I don't think she knows your interested in her in a sexual way.

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I'll try to change that tonight..


i currently don't really have a plan or anything lol but, I'll see what happens