ok guys I desperately need some advice on getting this one chick from class... here's how the story goes...

Within the first few days of class, I immediately notice this chick sitting near the front of the room (Yes I realized that I should've approached her right away but I just started reading up on this PU stuff so I was/still am a MASSIVE AFC). Randomly, one month into classes I see this girl in the hallways and she gives me the biggest IOI. I notice that she is staring at me and as we walk past one another we completely lock eyes... its an IOI with an exclamation mark at the end of it!! However, I get confused and don't say anything. If that wasn't already a huge AFC move, I make things even worse. I keep hyping myself to approach this girl every class but every time that I get the slightest opening it seems like she notices and responds by looking in a diff direction (an IOD??). Hence, I haven't approached her yet and there are about 3 classes left in the course.

I've really been over-thinking this on my own so I think its best if I turn to you guys for some wisdom and clarity.
Firstly, should I even approach this girl?? Is she a case of one-itis?? have I already ruined my chances by demonstrating too much lower value with all the IOIs I gave out before opening??
Secondly, if I were to open, should I go direct or indirect? She has definitely noticed me noticing her so at any approach she'll know that I'm hitting on her...

Please let me know guys... any insight would be helpful.
Thanks.
S Wild.

Woah woah, how long have you been in this class? You say you have only 3 classes left of the course and you have never spoken to her?

I'm going to be honest with you. If you have never spoken to her up until this point, then she has probably put you into the shy chumps group.

Dude you should have been speaking to her at least within the first week of class. If you approach now, it is gonna seem very weird and she'll be surprised because you've waited this long to talk to her. She may be shy too and could be dying for you to approach her. If she's quite a confident chick, I don't think you have a chance now.

hey thanks for the reply man... I appreciate it ) and it turns out you were right... I finally approached her today after class (direct opener along the lines of hey whats up) and she just passively brushed me off... I guess she put me into that shy chumps category a loooong time ago (((

Yep, I've been in the same boat, my friend. Just talking from my experiences. Forget about it but learn from it. You should be social with everybody in your class from day 1

Oh C`mon man.It`s your fucking class,of course she`ll want to get to know you.Just open with good BL and smiling say Hi.Do like 3 attraction routines,some cocky talk(you know that high school kind of talk),qualify with 2 questions,build some small comfort and ask her phone number.Just don`t be seen with another guys so they dont go in an AFCish "OOOOOO THEY LIKE EACH OTHER/HE GOT HIM SOME OF THAT STUFF.etc".

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Woah, if you didn't hit on her the first time she locked eyes with you then you have blown your chances?

Golddust I completely disagree with that, if that was true the majority of pretty ALL men who have girlfriends would be single now.

Attraction isn't so black and white dude, sometimes it happens from word go but most of the time real genuine attraction builds over time especially when we are talking about high school where girls haven't become shrewd from years of failed romances yet and still compare most of the guys they meet with Edward Cullen.

S Wild I sincerely doubt she has pigeon holed you as a shy loser because you didn't jump her the first time you made eyes with her.

If you're interested in her then go talk to her, don't neg her, don't DHV, don't put on a fluffy purple hat, just introduce yourself and ask her about her interests, her passions, how many pets she has, whatever feels most natural in keeping a conversation going and don't over think it either just say what is on your mind.

And read this http://wayoftheplayer.com/the-best-of-w ... proaching/ it will help you A LOT.

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Well, it looks like you've already approached, but I thought I'd just comment anyways.

I've been there 100 times before, and I'm only now realizing what I've been doing wrong. I've had many girls give me initial IOI's, only for me to do nothing. Then I'll continue to look at them and have them give me IODs or just stop looking at me like they used to. You have to act on this stuff pretty much right away. Each case is different to a degree, but I've let so much stuff slide at school by not having the balls to smile back, approach, or basically do something.

It's funny, because I get these girls giving me IOIs, and now I realize that I've been put into the "shy chump AFC" category more times than I care to remember. Well, at least I know what to do now.

Good luck, hope things turn around for you.