I recently attended a seminar in which they said its better to attack a problem instead of neglecting in... The problem i choose to attack today was not getting a reply to a text.

A girl on facebook chat wrote me a heart and i responded with "hearts make me horny.. stop it, wassup"

She didnt reply back, so i waited 10 mins and decided to attack the problem by writing " i"ll like it better if you said.. " i dont like what you just said".. instead of nothing you know lol"

Her response: "i am going to fight you -____- my cat is laying on top of me like a big baby so i didnt wanna disturb her & type but when you talk crazy like that !!
i told you to text me & you stopped the other nite"

A long explanation...

It's been working for me a lot lately..

Attack problems guys, don't neglect them..

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You are spot on with this. Most guys would probably send something like that while drunk then the next day apologies left and right for it.

It is almost as direct as some of the naturals I know and their game. It's not about the games of picking numbers, cold reading based on blah blah, but being direct.

But, the bigger thing that you should probably expand on is attacking the problems. Good example for online game, but do you have any for "real" pick up?

its actually became a huge part of who i am now..

Its very common guys will(i have done this too) give you the advice of just ignoring the girl, or letting it blow over and trying again later... However what i've figured out is, if you naturally aren't needy you can just attack the problem head on.. And girls aren't used to this so they respond positively usually..

Sometimes ignoring is a better tactic because you don't run the risk of coming off creepy/needy or whatever terms guys use to describe unattractive behavior.

However, if you know what to say, and you challenge the girl, i've found you build more attraction and a better rapport; rather than just ignoring and just leaving things at a stalemate.

I would advise everyone to try it out.. Attack any issue in your life, not even if its with women.. Don't neglect it, neglecting makes little progress. Action shows results.

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Sorry, my internet chucked a spaz and posted four times

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I agree with this for the most part, regardless of it being contradictory to your method of letting the girl chase you. Which I said went against my nature.

I don't believe however that you should respond to passive aggressive behavior. A girl that will ignore you, delete you as a friend off Facebook, etc. If you have no idea why this is happening, which is a similar situation to what i'm in now, i don't believe it's a good idea to tackle the problem. Since it isn't your problem at all, it's the other persons.

However if you say something then they suddenly stop talking to you, I agree, and think you should bring it up with them.

I wasn't having a problem, but I thought it was a good time to use what you said, and see the reaction I got.. I made a thread in the Online Sarging: horrible-pick-up-lines-vt121475.html


Her: lmao *Smile* ur silly
ME: you better not start any trouble tho..i know how you aquarians can be sometimes
Her: Yup. Im like a triple threat..Aquarious. Italian. & ENFJ personality...Worst combo.,.But I embrace it the best that I can
Me: hah you're like...your own Menage a trois
Her: huh? haha
Me: lol over your head?
Her: I dont know what it means..It's not english
Me: lol well you learn something new everyday, look it up
Her: I thought it was french!!! lmao *heart*
Me: Hearts make me horny, you better stop it
Her: wtf? lol
Me: Whats up?
blah blah blah


So, it didn't get a reaction like yours did, since she responded after like 2 minutes..but it was still positive..I think it kinda shocked her a little bit..in a good way.

I had a relationship with that girl where it was ok to use the horny line, and she still ignored it lol

its cool though, just try not to copy and paste other guys lines bro. Be your own innovator.

And to Mi1ooo90... I would suggest you giving it a shot no matter what, what do you have to lose anyway?.. I'm not suggesting you be annoying and send her multiple text or phone call but from what i've been seeing is the properly worded text or phone call will put you back on top. I think its better than waiting a week just to see if the girl contacts you again and then be unsure how to even respond when she does..

I've been coming to think a break in contact isn't even necessary... Who knows though, im still doing the research.

If you guys would help me by giving it a shot with women i'd appreciate it.. After all we're PUa's! lol try new shit, we'll get another women in no time anyway.

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I haven't had proper contact with this girl for several months. I work with her though, I'm not interested in starting anything back up with her. So i'm just skeptical to why i should make somebodies problem, that they have with me, semi my problem, when i don't really care for any sort of relationship with them in the first place.

So the best case scenario, i couldn't see benefiting me a great deal at all(she overall loves me for dressing her passive aggressive behavior). The worst case scenario isn't bad though either.

So i can only really see one way this would benefit me. And that is finding social patterns and reactions. So for that, i'll do it and happily get back to you.

Fuze: I'm curious, on my post, you said if I flaked on the fri hangout, that would be better than going but if attacking the problem (with care) is what should be done, why shouldn't I have gone?

I must stress, this is a question out of curiousity, not attacking you, just curious!?

I assume because I had become mr "smother" in her mind, that is why you recommended flaking plus obviously i'm a newbie so that's the safest course of action..........definitely wasn't the most fun lol!! ;P

I think in you particular situation, flaking is attacking the problem.. Like you said, you became "mr Smoother" the way to attack that is to do the opposite.. Neglecting would have been your remaining "mr smoother", ignoring the fact that you have a problem with smothering.

Hope that answered your question.

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While the horny heart thing was brilliant, I disagree with most of your post. You think you know what you're doing, but instead you're looking at your heart response along with the silence after as "THE" problem when it isn't - you were just increasing sexual tension. You were never neglecting anything in the first place. By sending her the text of, "hearts make me horny.. stop it, wassup" you're already giving her attention, you're not neglecting anything there man, that's already an action in itself. The only problem would of been NOT sending her that horny heart text because you would've missed out on a nice opportunity to create tension. The girl honestly told you that she didn't respond because of her cat. So by indirectly demanding that she responded back to you, you think you've done something outstanding but you're really just being slightly delusional. It's called "not expecting anything back" and that's NOT being neglectful. Internally, you really are being needy and over-analyzing the situation. Just keep things simple, go with the flow, and keep your assumptions to yourself. Let awkward moments linger, risk creepy.

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You seem to really have internalized this 60 Years of challenge book dude, which is cool, however im working on developing my own views instead of directly following the opinions of another man.. Not that anything is wrong with that.

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No problem, just thought a different point of view would be of use to you. And haha, I printed out all 4 books by 60 at my university and basically compiled them in a biblical-like way. Women Ignition is Genesis, Fearless Relentless Escalation is Numbers, and so on. I got some of my own methods too that I've learned from "the alpha male era" that aren't included by 60.

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