But you know that she actually sucks dick and enjoys sucking dick...


But you're having a conversation...And it comes up...and she mentions that it is sick, gross, nasty, etc..

What is a good come back to catch them off guard and challenge them?


For example..


Me: That lady is really talented. Shes beautiful, shes a MILF..her singing is amazing, and her piano skills are off the charts..
HB: Yeah, I agree totally, she's awesome..
Me: She can probably play a mean skin flute too
HB: Skin flute?? Ohhh you mean she can probably give good head? Ewww that's nasty!!
Me: haha no?? Its amazing, and I'm just pointing out the woman's talents..


The subject was quickly changed...I never know what to say when that shit comes up..I'm always called a sicko, and then the subject gets changed lol




But then again, the girls I've actually had relationships with, when it came time..All I did was unzip my pants and ask "Do you give good head?"
Most the time they say "Yes"...and then proceed to prove it.

I've had one say "Well I've only done it once, so I dont know if I'm good at it"
Me: Well you're about to practice..here ya go



But like..I knew those girls really well by then....This other girl I'm talking to right now, not so much...but, still think if I knew the right way to say things I could keep her on the subject longer to entertain her mind..any tips?

Could it be that the term 'skin flute' put her off? Or did she actually say she thinks giving head is nasty?

the answer is ASD

anti-slut defense

girls say sucking dick is nasty, because admitting it means several things:

- she likes sex
- she likes dick
- she might like your dick, lol

it's actually preposterous response

most girls who say "sucking dick is nasty", go home, finger-fuck themselves vigorously, while sucking on a drool-covered banana.

some doth protest too much

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You're both right...

I mean, Nadine, she could have been saying it in regards of the "skin flute" haha but..she was quick to change the subject...

So that leans me more towards Mack's perspective...it was an ASD on her part.

With that said, now that I come to think of it, within the past couple weeks she's mentioned a few things that kinda beat around the bush, so to say, about her sexuality....So its obvious she likes sex, she loves dick, and she will enjoy my dick. lol

But my question still stands... We pointed it out as an ASD on her part, what is an effective method of going around her ASD and bringing her guard down, without her getting more defensive?

I'll continue browsing thru old threads, because I know this has had to have been asked before, but I failed to recognize such threads upon my quick search.

I'm a newbie, but you may wish to not talk about other women like they are 'easy'. I would reckon you would talk about my blowjob qualities too with your other friends. I think talking about sex is good, because it shows confidence and that you are comfortable with the topic, but don't talk about specific persons and whether they are sluts or give head.