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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2011 5:37 pm 
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I texted her today...didn't go so well. At first she didn't remember who I was then she told me she had a boyfriend

Me: what's up Julia
Her: I got a new phone who's this
Me. Jim
Her. Jim?
Me. From the other day
Her. Oh hey I should of told u this the other day but I was just caught off guard but I do have a boyfriend
Me. O sorry about that...you seem like a cool girl but I understand
Her No no it my fault I should of been up front with ya but thanks for understanding  

I didn't respond to that. Either this girls not interested or really does have a boyfriend either way I don't plan on txtin her again. Guess I'll just see her next time I get my haircut. What would you guys do in this situation?


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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2011 5:56 pm 
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Just be cool about it and move on. You tried, that was great, can't ask more than that. Now look for your next prey.

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2011 8:42 pm 
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I texted her today...didn't go so well. At first she didn't remember who I was then she told me she had a boyfriend

Me: what's up Julia
Her: I got a new phone who's this
Me. Jim
Her. Jim?
Me. From the other day
Her. Oh hey I should of told u this the other day but I was just caught off guard but I do have a boyfriend
Me. O sorry about that...you seem like a cool girl but I understand
Her No no it my fault I should of been up front with ya but thanks for understanding  

I didn't respond to that. Either this girls not interested or really does have a boyfriend either way I don't plan on txtin her again. Guess I'll just see her next time I get my haircut. What would you guys do in this situation?
This game is not over, you can still win lol, a boyfriend only means "a minor setback" eh..not really move on to the next chick


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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2011 11:11 pm 
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Hahaha! ..stay positive!
Not tryin ta make ya feel bad or anything. Cheer up bro!

and 'fearless6868' might be right; it aint over yet! :D

Im not gonna say nice attempt cause in my opinion it wasn't.

If she didn't remember who you were im guessing you didn't leave a good enough impression. Impressions are very important. but thats ok cause you'll get more chances every time you get ur haircut.lol...its just good practice for you!

*Helpful tip: When you're in conversation with a girl try using similes in ur sentences. They make you sound fun and entertaining! Ive never met u but I hope ur not boring in real life. lol. if you are then u gotta change that. How well do u know urself? Thats a VERY hard question to answer. Do some self reflection from time to time. It helped me a lot bro!!!!

-Instead of the boring 'whats up Julia', nxt time try: Hey dork! hows it hangin'? any interesting customers at work today? (well, something like that)

-When she didnt remember who you were u should hve txted her that shes got memory like a gold fish.

and y did u apologise?? you've got nothing to be sorry about if shes got a bf!! Its not like you were gonna ask her out then and there; unless you were and then of course that would have been pretty weird. hahaha. It takes time to build attraction and comfort. You only met her twice. Work on building them up.

-After she told you that shes got a bf you could have been like: Il just be ur new txting buddy (or sumthin' like that)

-Mabye you could have been like: Y didn't you tell me about him the other day? Is he hot? Does he have sexy biceps? ...just joke around with her a bit. try role playing. girls like that! even if its u pretending to be gay. try to be creative. Also, think ahead of wht answer you might get from her so u can respond accordingly.

Summon up your courage and find a way to get her to like you. Do something! or else you'll never kno how its would have turned out.
And whats the worst that could happen if you piss her off? you go for ur nxt haircut and she gets you bald.lol (lets hope it doesn't get to that)

Im good at making girls laugh and flirt with me over txt messages. However, i dun kno how good u are at ur 'phone game' but if you think you can make her laugh then txt her again after 1 or 2 days or after you see her nxt time. If ur phone game ain't good enough yet then wait till u meet up with her nxt time. Or else on to the nxt Julia! there are plenty out there. lol.

And you know what: she ain't the prize, you are!!! make her feel like its her loss. kinda like: too bad ur not with me, Im a really fun person to be with. Use them similes in ur sentences! and have a good expression on ur face when saying them. Knowing and using good body language helps.

Hope this helped. more than anything keep that positive energy up. (Im an entrepreneur so i tend to hve a positive outlook on every aspect of my life! It helps a lot especially when it comes to girls. lol.)


Keep it real buddy! and let me kno wht u decide to do. il def. keep up-to-date
--Chase12

P.S. Guys feel free to fire out criticism.
I appreciate constructive criticism so i can improve my 'game' and see where im going wrong.


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 23, 2011 12:56 am 
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you need to set that funny playfull frame when you meet her..

you cannot be all mono in real life and suddenly become all fucking cocky funny on texting .. it's incongruent..
One more thing, 'Lodewijkp' gave great advice. Lstn to this guy!! What hes saying makes perfect sense!


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