There's this smoking girl in three of my five classes. She knwos who I am because in a Stats class about a month ago I wrote my number on her paper during class (had to work up the courage to do so for like half an hour). She didn't text me or say anything, I think she laughed I can't remember. A week later I asked if it's okay if I sat by her and she said yeah so I did. But I never said anything to her.

I'm probably one of the most attractive guys in the class but I have approach anxiety. I don't know how I shoudl approach this girl, she's always with a friend and that means I have to approach them both. there's been two days now where I took my moms car to school, (it's really nice) and I saw her walking home and I didn't have the courage to stop and ask her if she wants a drive.

Tell me how I shoudl approach the girl if she's with her friend. Also, tell me whaT I should do if I see her walking alone when I'm in my car. Ask her if she wants a drive? What should I say as an opener... right now I feel like an idiot because I've convinced myself that I'm going to opener if and only if I see her downtown (it's a small town so it's likely - but this is a fucking stupid idea when I see her every day).

[Edit: what I really need you to do is to tell me how much of a fucking bitch I am, how I'm being an idiot, how approaching is not difficult, how I'm blowing everything out of proportions, how if you were in my shoes you would lay her in a day, etc.]

I guess I'm going to use one of the openers on the Sticky'd page. I'll say how it goes in this post

Man over and over I see guys with the same problem. It doesn't matter what you say man! You could walk into class and say "hey blondy you really smell like douche today" but if you know HOW to deliver it with tonality and body language it'll go through. I'm not saying routines and "what to say" questions are bad, in fact you need that stuff. But what to say is just a set of training wheels. What you need to do is fuck it up. Walk into class and just do your best to do everything to pick her up. Drop openers DHV's get retarded the point here is that you'll learn. There are two types of people in this business AFC's and PUA's. AFC's want that girl PUA's want to good with women period. Focus on failing, click the link below and watch some of Cajun's videos and read the quotes up on the title board and write them down it'll really push you to a new level man trust me.

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The first thing you must do is have confidence in yourself. Sure your nervous about the approach, but we've all felt it. Don't look at her friend as an obstacle, because if she likes you, then the target might. Talking to the friend will allow you to upload dhvs into the target if shes within range, and paying attention.

Think of it as an interview, you want to get to know about each other, and find out your compatibility. And your suppose to sell yourself, not cut yourself short.

So weird! Exact same problem for me now and I am just hoping to see her in a bar to open .
She is hot as hell, stylish girl , so serious no smile to anybody. I see her several times in school /gym. I am pretty sure that she has a feeling about me (whenever she sees me , she reacts -looks down, roll her eyes, stares at me....)
I think that this type of girls are really shy and hard to approach for AFCs like me. I 've seen guys in college hitting on her. I know I'll lose her soon...
Need a bald move ,can't figure out it though...