ok so I know I have been asking a lot of questions lol
but I know this girl and I like her but she says she don't wanna ruin a freindship with a relationship so any ways I can change that

Don't listen to girls. She's rejecting you because she does not want to fuck you.

best advice I have ever received
so how do i make her want to fuck me lol

I know I'm new here but I have had a great deal with friendzones... They ain't worth it.. If you grew extremely attached to her and all she wants is to be friends. Cut her loose. I couldn't stomach it anyways. I was living in despair. If you did not fall for her so hard. Then I suppose you can just keep at it. Or what I should say is, put her on the side until you know you can finally game the hell out of her. She will notice the change, which is fricken awesome!

yeah theres this one girl i had oneitis for until last night when i started reading this and thinking of all the shit i've put up with. so i'm gonna put this bitch aside until i do some extracurricular activities then go back at it, but fuckin do it right.

Don`t listen to what girl says, but look for what she does. I mean it. What she says is in a lot of cases in the total oposite with what she is doing or how she is behaving. And if you want to look for signs or IOIs, look for them in her behaviour. If you could describe your situation more in detail, I could give you an advice on what you should do. But if you are not in the friendzone, just simply game her. And rembember, gaming her means doing it all in one evening/night, simply having fun and kiss closing her the same evening. With no gay speeches about you2, or how you feel, etc.!!! Also don`t hang out too much before you decide to do that.
And if you are in a friendzone- Do the freeze-out for how long you think it is necessary (mostly its 2-3 weeks). In the meanwhile do the jealousy plotline, and then do the reframe.
But I think you are a candidate for the first option. Good luck, hope it helped

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Although all the above advice is nice, none of you actually answered his question. So my friend, here is what you need to do to get this bitch to suck your fucking cock.

Next her by telling her you are just too horny for her and you want to fuck her badly. Even better to say this in PERSON while caressing her shoulder/hand etc. Look at her as a sex object, forget her cute and charming face. Focus on her body instead, do not let her sidetrack your cock.

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Don't get on one knee for a girl that won't get on two for you.

LOL at the above advice
but just wondering about the freeze out what is it and how do i do it same for the jealousy plot line

Ok, np
You do the freeze-out.. That means that you show much less interest in her. That includes not talking to her anymore, or talking to her just sometimes with showing almost no interest, no texting and if she texts, answer normally, but again, show muuuch less interest then you did before. Then in the meanwhile you do the jealousy plotline-Date other girls and that she sees you with her/them.. But it mustn`t come off as bragging or that you are trying to prove her smth.. She has to see it accidentaly or spontaneous.. Smth like that, you know what you mean. But that shouldn`t be on your mind. Date some other girl, and even if this target is still on your mind, force yourself to date her for a while. That is for 2 reasons-you maybe start liking her more bcs you will forget about your 1st target and 2nd reason is, that you show her that you are not a hung-up..
With this 2 things, you give her some space, she is wondering what is going on, and when she will see you with other girls it will subconsiousely tell her that you wanted her not just a friend and when she "rejected you", she lost you..Bcs you have choises..And also, Every girl, really every girl, feels some jealousy.. And this is all good for you, if you know how to use it the right time for a reframe. You see for yourself what is the best timing to do it, but you have to be careful with this..
Do you want to know more about a reframe? It`s the most important part of this..

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isn't re framing when you change the meaning of something like u make something look good instead of bad such as if u kissed your mates girlfriend then u would say to him now you know she isn't faithful

read this

how-to-get-out-of-the-friend-zone-vt121190.html

Thanks for that but I did already know that
I wanted some outer game stuff like what to say and do

Well.. You reframe yourself to her.. That means, that you present yourself as a different (better) person. All those things that you didn`t or she didn`t like before, you change them.. And when she sees that (but it must be a big change), the model is complete, and if you did it right you regain interest..And not that friend interest that you had before, bcs she knows now you are not interested in that.. But if you make the same mistakes again, you can say goodbye.. Good luck

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so i have to freeze her out and then I run the jealousy plot and then re frame so how long should I spend on each area