I have never actually said "wanna fuck?" to anyone... But once I pinched a guy on the arse as he walked past me, and another time I went up to a complete stranger and said "hey, do you want to hang out later?" Both times I was very successful. *shrugs*

Hehe!
That's fucked; I don't know how everyone can be so dishonest with everyone else, let alone with themselves! I wish everyone would just cut the BS.
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Hehe! Don't worry, I refuse to have a relationship with anyone who I don't feel a real connection with!

Wow, thanks heaps for posting this!

I think it is most likely that I am reason #1. I try not to be too full on because I'm aware that it can be a turn off, but I have the tendency to be impatient and frustrated, so I can only control myself for so long. Like in the most recent example, I waited a week before texting to ask for more sex, and then gave him a week to respond... In my mind that doesn't seem freaky unreasonable...?

It's possible I am reason #3 as well but I have had compliments on the body parts than I'm not happy with, so who knows!
Actually, it hasn't been EVERY guy, but enough of them for there to be a pattern...

jezus .. you are over-analyzing .. that's my job stop doing it...

if you look decent or hot, guys wouldn't refuse you.. it's total bullshit.. if you walk up to 20 different guys asking them to fuck you there would be at least one willing to do it...

maybe you approached 3 guys and asked them indirectly or maybe directly .. and now you say guys won't agree with direct fucking. i don't know how you asked it and who you asked ....could be you are just a unattractive fatty.. i have rejected woman in their twenties and i fucked older woman in their 40ties who just looked better than most younger woman... even tho they were older. could be you are hot but you have such shitty borderline personality that people don't want to be around you... even if this is the case i would still fuck you and move the fuck away after sex...

this is beyond retarded... if you asked 50 guys.. and none of them were willing to fuck you you either look like freddy kreuger or you are a drewling vegetable in a wheelchair. i asked you for your msn and you still avoided me ... you don't want to be fucked.. you are just avoiding shit and bragging blaming external things , you are just playing games - telling me im negging and qualifying... lol.. i just lured you and you commented - you are just someone who likes to play power games.

all the woman who only wanted sex for me but who i rejected were just immature...or they were retards... i wonder if you fall in one of those categories. because guys got brainwashed by all these social conditioning and shit...by this whole fukcing feminized society... guys who come to this forum had traumatic experiences , tough break ups , terrible psychology or any other shit....this site is not about getting laid.. it's about social dynamics..

you are just projecting here .. you came here to get laid or at least to learn how to get laid without much trouble and it also could be you want to justify that...it's your perspective not mine... if i want to get laid i go to a bar, or any other social gathering - maybe a dating site...this site is about learning and not about getting laid.. it's either your perspective or 99 % of the people on this forum are gay ... il bet my money on you.

lol

i told you you have the same way of thinking, writing and i can identify with you...what the hell are you talking about misunderstood ? do you even read what people are writing or are you here to get phone numbers and attention ?you call yourself unpredictable... guess what .. that means all other people are boring and predictable ? most people are unpredictable when it comes to emotions. Somehow you blame other people for not understanding you.. why the fuck are you even talking about this shit...you came here to get laid... so where is this going ?

i just see a woman who is very lonely who is bitter about other people because they are '' boring '' '' predictable '' or at least they don't understand you because they make assumptions out of their limitited low value social knowledge. do you want dick or a relationship ? you don't sounds unpredicatble .. you actually are predictable ..

you are a huge pain in the ass .. you just don't know what you really want and that's how predictable you are .. i l bet you fucked up or self sabotaged all your relationships.. if that's not the case you at least had retarded short term relationships... you probably assume people are not correct about you, fucking hilarious ! does that means you are correct about yourself .. who says you are not lying to yourself ? like you said you are unpredictable.. don't fucking tell me you always go for the same thing consistently with consistent psychology. this is why you are such a pain in the ass .. your ridicilious push pull behaviour... you make bullshit excuses about being anonymous - if you state your passions here everyone would still not know who you really are... if you don't want to talk about your other passions you probably don't love those passions as much as sex.. maybe you have no passions at all i don't know ... if you must chose between sex or something else you probably obsessively chose sex...

you are just a obsessed pain in the ass woman and you don't realize it... it's ok .. i accept you for who you are, i don't need to understand you i respect you, you made this thread fun so thats some added value. to be honest .. you are predictable... you think you are unpredicable but i think not .. i had multiple relationships with woman like you.

and for all the woman making shitty excuses about not getting laid directly ... im good looking, good in bed and i like to make woman feel good about themselfs .. give me your number and email... if you still are crying about the same shit over and over wake up...i can fuck the shit out of everyone. if you're here to learn how to get laid then stop defending and be open minded instead of thoughtlessness and defensive, did it ever occur to you that you could be the problem and that you could be fucked up.. maybe you don't even know it.

if you are drama on this forum you are probably drama in real life.. i guess you probably are

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Hahaha! You're right though. I don't get how everyone can cope with being so fake... It's grotesque!
Haha I think you're fishing for compliments here... Anyway, if it's true that a lot of girls say they wouldn't date you, I am surprised, because you look like the typical mainstream hot guy. I like your arm muscles, but you're not my type... I have weird taste, haha.

people who call themselfs unpredictable have either :

1. no idea what they want
2. limited self knowledge
3. the habit to overanalyze and to create problems for themselfs
4. a fucked up perspective about external shit
5. are smart but don't got their shit together
6. a huge ego because they think they are far better than anyone else
7. hugely confused person
8. Huge fucking ego

it's also funny how people who call themselfs unpredictable judge themselfs... how the fuck do you know if you are unpredictable ? have you lived 5 different lives ? maybe you are just normal but you aren't realizing it...normal or predicatble is just a subjective thing.

there is a positive trait for unpredictable people .. and that is if they work on the above 8 they will grow into a fucknig powerfull biological entity with unlimited motivation.

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Good for you Nadine, you keep doing things your way. You're hanging out in a forum with an unusual group of guys. Staying true to the name of the forum, most members are here to "Pick Up", not game. Not sure if this has to do with sucky pick up histories or what but no matter what they tell you and how much they flex their PUA muscles, most DO NOT like game. They don't like to flirt. They don't like to converse with others in real life. Read a few posts and you'll see that most want to "get this shit over with" as quickly as possible and start pumping pussy. They stand around and do nothing, nothing, nothing,(physically, mentally, metaphorically), then they work up enough nerves to pounce on it. Others will go on and on with endless bullshit like your neighborhood 50 year old hairdresser. The proof is in just about every thread of this forum.

So perhaps if you ran into to some of these guys in a club, they'd go for the 'fuck me now' approach. I'd still say that most would fall back to their comfort zone and exactly as you reported, tell you "NO". We are men after all. And not only is the 'direct method' for chicks a lower percentage game, it's a nice way to advertise that you're the village whore. Every guy will tell you, the World, and THIS FORUM that they're beyond stereotypes and that they treat EVERYBODY equally but again, read the threads. Read the descriptions of the girls that these guys have oneititses over . . . read about the girls that they treat like meat. Read about the girls that they pass over. Guys don't typically date village whores and interestingly, they don't F them repeatedly neither. Nor do they treat them well physically, mentally, financially, spiritually . . . We have cute names for what we do for them and if you've been here long enough, you probably know them all.

What you call "hints" is basically a solid game. All a girl ever needs to do is, "You have such a cute face. . . " - Guys, what do you have against this? This is direct. This is a girl who's expressing her feelings. This is a "Hello? Are you stupid? I'm inviting you . . ."

I've also heard, "Shoot, the bar is closing. I have a huge bottle of rum at home. . . but no coke. . . ." Guys, is this such a curve ball? How many of these have you missed that you must now advise girls to tell guys, "Fuck me now!"

"I want to fuck your face!" - Well, eh hem. . . no. This was the same girl who told me, "You have such a cute face," about 2 hours later back at my place while trying to toss her leg over my shoulder.

Which reminds me: Guys like surprises. Surprise parties, surprise bonuses, and surprise!~~ "Oops, I guess I had no rum. Let's just pound this beer real quick so I can fuck your brains out."

o yeah and chris K is fucking hilarious ...

bro i really respect you because you have alot of discipline into working out and get teh body you want.. but you are a huge fucknig insecure person.. you post pics of yourself because there are 2 girls posting.. i don't see you posting your pics in other shit. Too much muscles and no brains i guess .. but you are still young and i respect you bro. you are just another insecure dude who is judging other men...lets see if you still feel like the shit without all that muscle and egotistic judging. people are always compensating by getting something .. could be their body , drugs , car or money. she is glad to agree with you shit tho .. this says more about her than you chris you seem like a nice dude to me.

predictable when predicatble insecure naieve people bunch up
i just enjoy this...

blabla ..'' i like your arm muscles but your not my type ''.. shut the fuck up .. the guy looks fucking great... i would suck his dick if i were gay...

but lets stop turning this into the meat up forum...

just answer me this question ..

what the fuck do you want ?

what the fuck do you want from men?
what kind of men do you want ?
what do you want in life ?
what are you trying to achieve here ?

il bet you can't answer those questions.. you probably flake as fuck again or give some bullshit excuse why not to answer do you can repeat your whole bullshit cycle all your life over and over.

the words pain in the ass keeps popping up in my head...im not thinking you are such one .. im just observing

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Well all those AFCs out there are obviously not finding vaginas to be readily available to them, that was the point I was trying to make.

Well you'll lose. I was just overgeneralising when I said guys come here to laid. I am perfectly well aware that there's more to this site than that, however, you have to admit that getting laid is a really big part of it.
I thought you were talking to kasabi, since you quoted him right before you wrote that...
No, of course I didn't come here to get phone numbers and attention. That would be incredibly sad! O_o

No, if I'm unpredictable, it doesn't mean everyone else is boring and predictable. Didn't anyone ever tell you that life is not all black and white?!

I don't blame other people for not understanding me. I don't know where you got that from. If you read my post again, you will see that in fact I partly blame myself for being unable to come across in the right way, but mainly I think it's just the way things are and it's no one's fault.

The reason we are discussing me feeling misunderstood, is because kasabi wrote: "whether these guys ... are truly in love with these girls BECAUSE these girls are truly 'good catches', there is something to be learned here. Sex on its own as a reward rarely makes the cut for 'repetitive sex'. It would be nice for you to discover, build, and share some other qualities with others." In my response to that I mentioned that I am a good catch but I am often misunderstood. Then you prompted me to explain further what I meant by that.
I am not sure where this venom is coming from... Perhaps you just like stirring people for your own amusement.

Anyway, again you are providing a perfect example of bullshit assumptions you're making about me based on the very limited knowledge you have of me.

I am not unpredictable to myself, only to others because I am so unlike other people. I know exactly what I want and I am very constant in that regard. It's just that, as an example, I like to wear pearls and I also like to wear leather. If you knew that I like to wear pearls and knew absolutely NOTHING else about me, you'd probably assume I don't also like to wear leather, or vice versa. It is not a very good example, but again I am trying to be anonymous here.
I am just being paranoid in case one of my acquaintances is reading this. If I were to, for example, divulge my occupation and passions, I really think that my acquaintances would put two and two together. Those who know me well would already figure out who I am by what I have written, and that is fine, but I'd prefer that my acquaintances don't figure out who I am.
I love how much you contradict yourself... You are so rude, and yet you claim that you respect me! It's also really amusing to me that you assume you know me based on a few posts I have written. So pathetic!
Of course it did, why else would I be on this forum asking for help?!
Oh really? And what was this you wrote to Nadine earlier? Oh yeah...

Yet another excellent example of you completely misunderstanding what I wrote. As I said before, I meant OTHER PEOPLE find me predictable, not that I find myself unpredictable. Anyway, I've explained myself more than enough already and I don't need to justify myself any further to you.

Wow, you sure are getting your knickers in a knot over me asking for some advice. I feel like you really have it in for me. Not sure what your problem is, but maybe you should take a chill pill!

I will not answer your retarded questions because I don't see the point. The only one that is actually relevant is the last one, and I think if you read what I've written in this thread, then you should know the answer to this.

the point i was trying to make is that those AFC guys are not getting laid because they shoot themselfs in the foot... they are victims or themselfs or because of external social pressure...
stop thinking in vagina and laid and try to see the bigger picture.. 'no ones fault.. ? it's your fault.. there are some constant factors but you can be who you want to be if you work at it. can't you see what you're doing? ... first you state '' i blame myself'' .. then you state '' it's nobodies fault'''. first of all stop blaming yourself .. and stop saying it's no one's fault. because there is always social conditioning going on. What do you want to change and how do you want to change it .. that is the question. It'you blame yourself you are not accepting yourself.. if you don't accept yourself then grow into someone who you want to be 100 %. so that means you are right ? what the hell do you know ? you came here for help.. that means you are having a issue and it can be you...again defending you clearly said '' i am unpredictable'' .. i don't know but either your grammar is way off or you are fucking around fooling everyone including yourself. other people tell you you are unpredictable so you create a identity meaning out of it ? maybe you are just a boring person which is overcompensating and calling other people fake...

seriously do you think others think you are unpredictable .. or do other people really told it to you face to face .. 10 people or more and you created identity meaning out of it ?if i go to japan without learning english or japanese everyone there thinks im unpredicatble as fuck. makes me wonder if you are paranoid about other stupid bullshit... you would only compromise yourself if you would write you name , adress and that kind of information .. alot of the same people have alot of the same passions... again you are giving me bullshit excuses..

are you in a relationship? .. are you married.?.. or are you really a paranoid person in general .. who are you really afraid of and why ? you can private message me about your passions if you like to. i love how you say i contradict myself .. that means im unpredictable doesn't it ? i switch ideas.. im inconsistent... makes me '' wonder '' .. im not rude that's just your perspective.. you are also easily insulted it seems - another good quality i guess...

i don't shine moonbeams up your ass .. im straight and honest and im here to point out your issues and other bullshit... that's my type of ineracting - it's not insulting .. stop behaving like a victim... i respect you as a human being but not as a person - you need to deserve that respect. yes .. you have wrote a few posts and you are '' so predictable '' ... not to insult you but you are as predictable as fuck... then stop defending.. what im saying - at least consider it to be a possibility instead of defending and saying im insulting you blabla... maybe she is a unattractive fatty or maybe she got a bipolar pain in the ass personality... if she's fat and unattractive she needs to work out, lose weight and change her clothing style. if she's having a bipolar pain in the ass personality she needs to adress issues... if she can't attract men no matter what she needs to learn game. it's not insulting .. it's called being realistic and calling out possible issues to help someone reealize what they are doing wrong.

like you said .. most AFC guys are probably '' predictable fake and boring '' .. maybe you left the word stupid out... if a guy is ugly i tell him staight on he need to change his looks .. if he's fat i tell him to lose weight.. if he blames other people i tell him to reflect on himself, if he cannot interact with woman i tell him how to game.... because you are a AFC female doesn't mean im going to treat you different.. maybe im even more realistic because you are bullshitting around. I offered nadine to fuck her brains out as well , that's not a insult that a genuine interest..maybe you don't like guys showing interest.

like kasabi said .. guys in this forum are different men.. if you can't stand my shit then do not ask for help.

so to start out... you blame yourself..

what do you and what don't you like about yourself ?
what do you want to change ?
what are you really looking for ?
and answer some of the previous questions..

if you are going to start bullshit about how you want to stay anonymous then go see a psychologist or personal coach. you cannot expect help if you are not open - not real and withdrawing everytime people ask questions.

if you want to be understood people need to ask you questions... untill know you flake like fuck and you haven't answered any question.

Lets assume im wrong... then you still need to answer my questions so i can understand you... you cannot come on a forum and expect everyone to understand your psychology in a few replies

if you still make excuses, not investing and being paranoid , then please go away and stop wasting everyones time

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oh i was bussy replying .. i didn't see you were becoming all emotion and posting 3 replies in a row.... getting all fired up , defending and taking shit personal... i guess i pass my chill pill to you , seems you need it more than me..
guess i uncovered your issues....and pressed your buttons

you don't want people to understand you at all .. don't you..you take everything personal it seems .. could it be that's your problem ... ohhh..

issue 1 : you take things too personal
issue 2 : you defend too much making it almost impossible to get a clear understanding about who or what you are
issue 3 : you avoid all question
issue 4 : asking other for help while you aren't doing anything to help yourself ...
issue 5 : making multiple replies instead of a collective one

go find some AFC idiots to string along you hate/blame cart

kasabi maybe be nice this time .. but like i said im not going to pour rosewater on your head singing holy chants playing my flute... im really wondering why you make it so hard for other people to understand you... that's the reason why i call it a pain in the ass behaviour. if you still to refuse anything or putting up retarded defensive behaviour im going leave .. im not going to invest time into helping someone who doesn't want to help himself...

my advice currently .. date someone like einstein..

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Afc female so now lets make you a pua female, where are the places to hang out in your small town, and to meet men? who do you usually hang out with?

how do you look and dress?(be honest no biggies, if you are not good looking enough that can change in as little as 3 months if you follow my instructions)


Your age and target men you are looking for age?


target male race?



how do you feel and look at yourself are you proud or who you are, do you feel good about yourself?

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Thanks for your reply. The above is exactly what I've been trying lately. Now I can compare asking: "Do you want to come home with me" with "Do you want to meet my cat" which gets better results.