Tomorrow is my cousins confirmation and I'm his sponsor and I am sitting next to this girl who also is a sponsor to a little kid. Today we had a practice for it and I was talking to her throughout the whole thing but it was just regular chit-chat. Tomorrow I want to try and get her number so how should I go about getting her interested in me. I was thinking since we have assigned seats and she will be next to me again I will say "Oh God, I have to sit next to YOU again" or "Jeez your back, why are you stalking me". If those are good 'openers' what do I do after that, and how to get number?

You want to talk about all the different things you do, different places you go to, then it's natural to invite her along some time "I'll take you some time"

then it;s just a matter of collecting the digits.

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You: (Say the openers you provided)
Her: Haha
Basically at this point you will make small talk ask her about her work, whilst establishing eye contact and kino, and just keep it going, you can be a little playful.
Now for the big important part
Where you both part ways hopfully with her number!

You: Hey so look, i've been meaning to ask, are their any good places to eat around here, my friend is in town with his wife and its been some time, where do you usually dine?
Her: Oh well i go to blah blah
You: Really, hows the food?
Her: it's fantastic
You: Are you lieing? (say this in a playful manner with a smile and a little laugh)
Her: Haha, what? No it's good
you: Well their's only one way to find out (smiling, but not in a creepy way...duh)
let's have dinner together, (wait for the response, if positive proceed to) alright, heres my cell, whats the best way to contact you?
Her: Heres my phone number, lets fuck.
ok the lets fuck part is highly unlikely, but hey you've got a simple quick method to knock two birds with one stone, get a number and a date! and if you're a high roller you can make it into an instant date that very day, or just go to lunch, be creative, bra, good luck.

Alright guys, unfortunately I woke up to late to read the responses before I left so I had to wing it. I used the stalking opener I provided then just talked about random stuff but was to nervous to get her number, but a shed of light from God saved me haha. My little cousin who (thinks i'm the shit and already thought I got her number yesterday, even though I kept telling him I didn't) went up to her after it was over and asked her if I got her number (so he could know if I was lying to him about not taking her number), and she said no he didn't, but then said give it to him and gave him her number to give to me. Lucky right? haha but anyway I still feel like I failed even though I technically got her.

Also first off I love this community, and thanks for helping me out in my first real post. Secondly I found out what I need to work on after thinking long and hard about it. I need to work on approaching women that I am attracted to, that I'm not forced to sit next to and actually have to do the work to approach them, and secondly I need to work on number closing and not bitching out.

Haha, that was lucky, good for you though. Keep on hunting and jump into that shark cage or they'll eat ya