Girls ex-bf getting in the way



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2011 1:32 am 
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Well he's not physically doing anything but he's taking too much space up emotionally. She broke up with him about 3 weeks ago and he still constantly tries to contact her and sends her texts expressing his "love". She posts about all of this on facebook and she and her friends all think its super creepy, but I feel as if this is making her emotionally unavailable.

Any advice as to what I can do in this situation?


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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2011 1:47 am 
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do you have anything with her?

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2011 1:50 am 
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Oh yeah, I know she likes me but its not quite easy to escalate when she's constantly being annoyed by her ex.


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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2011 1:58 am 
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I wouldnt worry too much about him, or even talk about him

If she bring it up to the table that subject. I would tell her, what makes you feel better if you like him forgive him. I understand sometimes its dificult to let him go and bla bla

I would put some reverse pychology on her. ofc also implying, that anything between them would be the end of you and her :)

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2011 2:05 am 
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I wouldnt pay attention to him and everytime she mentions something bout him just play it off. But if she keeps dumping u with ex bf stuff and uses u just to rant about him you have to leave because it never ends well.


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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2011 4:15 am 
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Uh...it's incredibly easy to escalate, because he does not affect you in any way. Just game as if he didn't exist.


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