I am new to the site, and new to all this,
i have an issue i hope i find an advice or a guide to wut to do in it,,

the situation:

i am in my 2nd long relationship with a previously divorced girl, due to violence, her husband, brother, and even father was violent with her,, she is rlly scared from men, but when we met and talked we had a very strong chemistry, we been together for 7 months now, and she keep telling me i am the one to be with, and that she can't live without me, i am the 1 who can make her happy after all she been through, i believed it and i fell in luv,, lately the past couple of weeks, she started saying am boring and i dont know how to treat her or even the good way to talk to her or to reach her and give her wut she needs, she said she thought she luved me, but she doesnt think it will work, but i think her fear is kicking in, idk yet, but i knw that i am the same guy since i met her, i am always nice with her, i am the 1 who keep it going, she keep telling me she is afraid from repeating her 1st marriage and then she keep telling me the boring thing..
i luv that girl and i think we will have a gd future together, but i dnt know what to do since she try to push me away and when she does she comes back to me... is there anything i can do to make her love grow more, or to make her forget the fear she is having? or a good way to make her interest level go waay up without hurting her feelings?

thank you for your time in reading this.

guys please just throw anything whatever u think can work or ur point of view, or wut will u do in this situation.
thanks

You can’t hold this like is truth in the whole universe, feelings changed so move on , and don’t dwell in this shit.

Women want to gain your affection, and love, resume they dont want to be part of your world they want to be your world the problem is when they do, when they achive this, in order to keep you interesting you cant let her be your world, resulting you become to needy, meaning you are boring in her eyes. Dnt believe on that crapp that being romantic and being always for her, it wont work. Push and pull exists for a reason

Our natural reaction is when we are losing something, is try and make up pulling as harder or trying. But to be honest this doesn’t work, try and let her go. Be more a busy guy. And when you are with her do something out of the ordinary, lets be honest if you see her all days , change that to 3 days. So she can start missing.

You didn’t change but in the beginning it was only sex, and discovering what news, what did you like, knowing a person, its original innovating, not boring.

Start a hobby, and don’t change your schedule because of her. Go out have some fun with friends.

Give her more space. Relationship is two people, so she is falling also not you.

In general quality over quantity.

A guy not afraid of losing his sweetheart,has already won this battle. So dont believe that romantic cliche endings.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

Don't want to be harsh, but you sound pathetic! She is just a girl, dump her ass and move on! The best cure for one-itis is to GFTOW! Go sarging in the mall - Xmas is near and malls are full of beautiful HBs. Go on a crash and burn mission there it will make you feel better, and you will realize there are so many other more beautiful women than just her.

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Yeah oneitis is the worst thing you could get yourself into, I still fall for girls easier than I know I should.