I just don't get this part of game.

Every other part of game makes sense except this part.

I guess the easiest way would be to give you guys a general situation I find myself in, and have you show me what running good attraction would be like in that situation.

So lets say I've opened correctly, got the number. I somehow have bantered correctly and she agreed to a date.

Unfortunately for me, I have no clue what to do from this point until kino escalation/qualifying.

In just about every model, you are aiming to create attraction so that she give you physical signals (IOIs in mystery method) so that you know you can start physically escalating and going to comfort so you can bounce to the end game location.

In my journey to become good at this, I've successful improved in getting a woman to every step except attraction. I've even managed one time to somehow accidentally have a woman chase me, kino and give me a free pass through attraction, made it to the end game, then had to leave for college. Came back a few months later, just had to rekindle attraction and close, but messed this up and lost her.

I don't understand what physical steps need to be taken (besides kino, but that's late attraction, after you've already interested her, right?) to get a woman attracted.

im not completely sure of your question but ill try..

Attraction, is just about maintaining the initial spark she felt at the point of giving you her number.. Its about constantly moving things forward, up to the next level.. For example, if the first time you meet her you shake her hand, then next time you give her a hug, next time, kiss, etc.. Its all above escalating things to a sexual level and then maintaining it there.

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lol, good point.

Shouldn't the magical sex blanket be used much later in the seduction though, haha?


To clarify my question from my mess of a first post....

I understand how to get a number. I get how to get a date. I understand that I need to kino escalate, create some semblance of comfort, and bounce to a closing location if the logistics are correct.

What I don't get is what you do to create attraction (between getting the date and escalating) so that when I kino escalate, I don't get completely shut down/friend zone'd which I've done more times than I can stand this year.

There is no interest on my dates, whether I man up and kino or not. It doesn't matter, because I never created attraction. I just somehow get women's numbers and sometimes do things right and get dates. After the first date, I don't hear back. Or if I escalate, I immediately get friend zone'd.

Been trying to figure this out too. But I think it lays within value & qualification a lot for girls. Basically, do you fit the image of what she thinks she deserves? Does she feel having sex with you would be slumming, or geeking out, or anything she'd see as surrendering her standards?

Even with us guys. There's those girls who you're proud to bring around your parents and friends because you see them as a real prize. Then there's the other ones whom you see more as a guilty pleasure.