Thought it would be cool for people here to share a few tips about body language, you know the do's and don'ts.

I have this habit of biting my fingernails, not out of stress but just cause i'm a bit
hyperactive and it calms me down in a way.
Is this unattractive behavior or am i exaggerating? dunno how it looks from the side.

And a month ago I was hanging out with some cougars and one of them said something that made me wonder :

She said that when a man caresses his neck its a sign of sexiness.

Could be she was just totally horned up at the time, but maybe im wrong and it's good.

Biting fingernails- unattractive. I suggest giving it up. I used to bite mine down to the nubs but gave it up. Your fingernails will look much better and you won't be projecting your antsy energy.

Stop biting your fingernails, girls look at them, so keep them fresh

Caress your neck is a 50/50 situation: Everyones neck is exposed, thats why it is a delicate position to touch. If someone caress their neck it can be that they just told a lie, they are nervous, or stressed out. But it can also be a positive and sexual thing, depends on how they touch their neck and what the converation/situation is about.

When it comes to sexiness I really think charm is the key to sexiness. Not stroking your hand against your neck haha

Body language:
- Stand up straight, dont tilt your head forward.
- When standing legs should be shoulder wide.
- When walking walk slow, 1 step each second.
- Smile
- Have eye contact with people, strong eye contact in sets.
- Take up your space when standing up,walking, sitting down.

Where to put your hands/arms.
- Back pockets, you look more open specially with a smile!
- Front pockets, thumb out or thumbs in fingers out.
- When sitting down, I always have one of my arm around
the chair next to me, or around a buddies shoulder. It looks friendly,
and that im comfortable because I take up space.

If I missed something be kind and share it!

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There are 2 kinds of people when you boil it all down, you got your talkers and you got your doers.
Most people are just talkers, all they got is talk, but when all said is done it's the doers who change this world.

People always say to smile alot, but one day I stumbled upon something interesting saying that if you smile too much you look like a total wierdo which is pretty true, so its important to keep that in mind.
Kabi you summed it up pretty well, though I still believe that the problem lies within the little things like :

When you see a girl you like at a club, should you throw her a direct look or subtly move your head in her direction as if checking her out just like every other bar glass in the place.

thanks guys

Yeah I know that too, going around smiling and looking all happy is a bit creapy, and you look like a happy clown. Smile at the right moments.

EYE CONTACT:
I really believe that eye contact can be used as attraction.
But you have to understand first that eye contact is visual,
so body language and looks are a bit important here.

Every time I go out, I got confidence, I display it with my body language.
I know girls check me out, some of them are interested, others are not, thats just the way it always will be thats a bit of your life, embrace that fact!

If you take care of yourself, grooming, hygiene ,tanning, nice clothes etc. it will help you out alot, and you will get more eye contact from girls, everybody likes someone who looks fresh.

So lets say im in a club, I never start off with looking at girls and sarging right away (thats a indication on being needy), I let them take notice of me, I start with having fun with my company that I came with, we laugh, get some drinks, and have fun talking/dancing. And all I have to do for myself is being my best self!

Now I had fun with my friends, girls have been looking at me. I haven't looked at them, so all I have to do know is find these girls that are still looking at me and bust them. If I see something I like, I show it to her, you have to be careful of how much you show, you should never give yourself away on the spot, I look, and a smile just a little bit, smiling to much is like saying (I really like you), I save that for the girls I know is easy to get. I smile a little bit, and get back to my company, lets say we get contact again, I either smile again, or I blink with my eye to her, it depens on what my gut feeling tells me to do, If she likes it, I approach her with this line from Keys To The Vip it goes like this "Is it time for us to stop flirting and start talking? ", I like that one because its smooth and displays alot of confidence. If she says "Yes it is", isolate her she has already agreed to talk to you! If she says "No, I got a boyfriend / I was not flirting", I just say "Okay, you looked like you had something on your mind, nice to meet you have a good night ".

IoI's:
- She looks at you from time to time.
- She looks at you more than 3 seconds.
- If she looks and blinks
- If she looks and smiles (but it can also be a friendly thing she does)

All you have to be is to be confident that she looks at you and likes you,
you just have to approach her at some point and dont take to long because you will loose her. I have lost girls because of taking to long, and I have gotten girls by being so mysterious.

I will share 2 of my stories:
I have looked at a girl a whole night, and still gotten her number before the club closed. One girl actually approach me and told me that she was leaving the club, and all I did was look at her sometimes and then stop looking for a while, and then looked back (playing hard to get). I was stupid enough to blow her away by saying okay, have a great night. She gave me kiss and said bye. That was all the talking we did. Another girl came up to me in the smoking corner, and told me to save her from a creepy guy, than right after she said Do I know you?, we ended up kissing and switching numbers.

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There are 2 kinds of people when you boil it all down, you got your talkers and you got your doers.
Most people are just talkers, all they got is talk, but when all said is done it's the doers who change this world.