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PostPosted: Sun Nov 20, 2011 2:20 pm 
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well i could ignore her for a week, then text her saying that ive started seeing someone so nothing can happen, but i would like to meet up with her as friends?


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[/quote] Be a man and do what you know you gotta do here, but just dont want to face it.[/quote]

Do you mean move on BreakingBad?


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btw, i just got a text from her saying

"Everyone has bad moment. I was dumped by my boyfriend, he discoverd i cheated on him and none of us ever talked 2 u the way u talked 2 me. so yes, im gona stay away"

any suggestions for a reply? she might be serious, but also she might be just emotional, as i dont know why she would bother texting that.

I was thinking of saying, "ok, if you cant forgive me for saying a few bad things to you then we wouldnt have worked anyway",

what do you think?


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btw, i just got a text from her saying

"Everyone has bad moment. I was dumped by my boyfriend, he discoverd i cheated on him and none of us ever talked 2 u the way u talked 2 me. so yes, im gona stay away"

any suggestions for a reply? she might be serious, but also she might be just emotional, as i dont know why she would bother texting that.

I was thinking of saying, "ok, if you cant forgive me for saying a few bad things to you then we wouldnt have worked anyway",

what do you think?
don't reply at all.. watch

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[quote="Fuze"]don't reply at all.. watch[/quote]

What do you mean by watch?


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lets make it simple ..
what do you think is going on ?

does she messed around telling you bullshit ..
or is she interest... maybe you hypnotized yourself i don't know..

aside from that , who do you trust.. do you trust yourself or do you trust her.. you cannot have both..

are you good with taking hard descision in your life ? because to me it sounds simple.. you make a descision and you probably wouldn't like it - but as a man you need to do it.
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as for the text message .. could be she will fuck you if she comes over to your place... i would wait .. i would tell her im bussy and i how i cannot reply right now. Dont rush into something unless you got everything planned together..

but again it's easy for me, im not attracted to these type of woman... she cheated and that kind of shit.. not good GF material. Cultivate a emotional pause .. think about what you really want and make a descision

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I honestly dont know whether she is messing me around or not.

are you saying that you would wait a few days, then text her back saying that your busy and cant reply?

to me that sounds a bit wierd as why would you text her if you were busy? but more to the point, i dont know whether its best to reply or not. As for who i trust, i trust myself, and myself is telling me to see this through to the end


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Jonsteve, I think it`s best that you consider everything we wrote and then take smth from each.. No one knows your situation as good as you, so you know what˙s going on and how she feels about you now and based on our advices select the one that`s closest to your situation and adjust it ;)

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i text her what i said before and i got this response :

'i was dumped by my boyfriend because i cheated on him with u. Then U treated me disrespectfully. so yes lets say its fare too much 4someone a barely know'

i think shes having a hissy fit over it, shall i tell her where to go? lol jk, no really what do you recomend i do? i might be wrong but if she really hated me, why would she keep replying lol .. im getting sick of this


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i text her what i said before and i got this response :

'i was dumped by my boyfriend because i cheated on him with u. Then U treated me disrespectfully. so yes lets say its fare too much 4someone a barely know'

i think shes having a hissy fit over it, shall i tell her where to go? lol jk, no really what do you recomend i do? i might be wrong but if she really hated me, why would she keep replying lol .. im getting sick of this
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I took your advice of ending it, but i didnt end it by not reply because i didnt think that was the right thing to do. I basically just said that it was good meeting her and to have a nice life. i think i did the right thing (finally) but still feel pretty shit about it.


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it's ok ..

i have done this kind of stuff multiple times ...

and it never feels easy or good.. nobody guaranteed you that doing the right thing feels good.

it';s ok to feel like shit .. its called being realistic and making a descision because you are the man

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