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PostPosted: Sun Nov 20, 2011 10:03 am 
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How many of us in our AFC days (or been now) have lied to a girl about how we feel about her to get her into bed etc? I just Wana share something that happened to me last night.
A girl was going down on me (first date) and she asked me if I loved her! Yes I know fucking weirdo.
Anyway point is it would have been so easy for me to think "im getting head just go along with it so it carries on"
I stopped her, said "look I'm not going to say something I don't mean/feel" I turned around thinking "shit I'm going to have to beat of in the morning when I get home!" but she turned me around and carried on anyway.
Point is there is no need to lie to a girl about feelings- your still guna get what you want if you do everything else right :-)


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 20, 2011 10:43 am 
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I think you brought home a weirdo: a girl asking you if you love her when you just met her? Are you sure she didn't ask if you "loved it"?

Anyhow, I've never had to lie about being in love to get it, although I lied about the number of girls I slept with once, because that one girl "didn't want to have sex with a guy who had too many adventures". She loved it anyways!


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Nope unfortunately defo not asking if I loved it!


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To be honest, I can't remember lying to a girl to get something of her.
Not even in AFC years.
What I did though was bragging or make things seem more important or cooler than it was. Or looking busier or more occupied than I actualy was.

Lying to the question "do you love me" sounds to me like the most stupid thing you can ever do.

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althought to some the word "love" is just about as sacred as the word "god", many "abuse" it in different ways.
people say "i love ..this car/this movie/this tune/your dress/her ass...etc"

you could have said "i love you (for what you are doing right now)".
which could have worked like an incentive or it could have been the kind of feedback she would have liked to hear..
guess some girls prefer a "diet love" not the "high sugar love" that will make her "thick as a brick" and suffocate her freedom.


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How many of us in our AFC days (or been now) have lied to a girl about how we feel about her to get her into bed etc? I just Wana share something that happened to me last night.
A girl was going down on me (first date) and she asked me if I loved her! Yes I know fucking weirdo.
Anyway point is it would have been so easy for me to think "im getting head just go along with it so it carries on"
I stopped her, said "look I'm not going to say something I don't mean/feel" I turned around thinking "shit I'm going to have to beat of in the morning when I get home!" but she turned me around and carried on anyway.
Point is there is no need to lie to a girl about feelings- your still guna get what you want if you do everything else right :-)
I think everyone here already knows that they wouldnt lie about that. So Immaa be thinkin that you just wanted to share the fact that you got head last night


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 21, 2011 11:33 am 
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Errrr- no otherwise I'd put it in field report. All I'm saying is it's hardly unknown for guys to lie about feelings thinking they will score points with a girl. And it doesnt need to be done.


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my finding is that i even don't really want a relationship with the girl .. you still unconciously perform little lies in order to sleep with her..

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