So, this game is nothing new, but somehow...I always manage back in this mess.

Long story, so bear with me-
Met this girl beginning of July,...and she was hardcore into my game. I mean...pics, texts, calls, etc...getting love from every angle. Out of twice that we hung out,...she comes back to ask..."why didn't you kiss me". I, like I usually do, didn't feed into it,...cause I "knew" she wasn't going anywhere, so i wanted to see what other options were out there.

Then, about a month ago, I actually started to genuinely like her, and feed into initating convo's etc. I noticed she started to pull back a little. after a few days of trying to call...and she wasn't replying back,...she hits me with.."sorry been super busy, last night was on the phone with "my guy", etc. I won't lie, and showed frustration through our text convo. After that day a week went by of no contact, when she stopped replying. Shoot her a random text...and she updates me on life etc, then ends up calling me talking about life, work etc. (Keep in mind, this is a Fri night!) I'm out, so convo was only 20 min or so...when it couldve went for an easy hour. After a couple days, I text her to hang,...and she pulls the bf card on me again?! Since then...which has been a about a week...we've exchanged a couple texts about bs. This past Tues, I mention to lets meet up for a drink, but no reply back. Keep in mind...shes postin sh*t on fb, etc. I haven't done anything since.

Soooo......I REALLY jacked myself on not taking advantage earlier. What do I do now???

I think you understand for yourself. You seem to realize the answer on your own. Here are the basic options though. You have two options. 1. Move on and realize you took to long to begin liking her and didn't escalate fast enough, learn from your mistakes. Your game will become better. 2. Chase her, get in emotional turmoil because she begins avoiding you with a chance(a slim chance) of winning her back. The second option is also amoral since she now has a "guy". Could be a BF or just an interest. I personally have traveled down option 2 and would never do it again. Still your choice and the options are more of a spectrum than two options, theres a lot of inbetween choices.

Last thing. You are in better shape then you think. If you got one girl interested in you you can get another one. You can then learn from this experience or repeat it (this choice is easy). If you so choose to move on. Hope this helps.

I agree, except for the "BF". Maybe I'm in denial, but this "guy" came out of nowhere. Then, on a fri night 2 weeks ago, she calls me talling me things goin on in her life, and why shes been acting weird. If you gotta guy, why call me?!?

I'm trying to understand why she goes from hot to cold? And is there anything I can do to keep her hot button on?

You have choosen the path of difficulty and emotional turmoil. I have left this path long ago. I can no longer help those who choose this path, you are on your own. I will tell you this, stop searching for the hot-button or the magic pill. It doesn't exist. Good luck. You will need it.