I can be busting on her, being playful,light rapport etc and it goes great. Then comes the shit-tests which I can normally handle unless its a little personal. Most recently i was gaming a girl in Barnes and Nobles(im a cashier) it was going smoothly until she said " i dont know if i can go out with you,i mean you're just a cashier" she said it a little sarcastically with a sly smile but I still got upset lol,this doesnt happen always,but enough to be a problem. Sometimes me and a girl can go back and forth playfully but they always tell me one thing that kinda gets to me,how do i del with this crap? lol

If she was trying to be flirty that was a horrible way to do it. Thats a dumb ass statement a guy is more likely to make then a girl, as girls are more socially intuitive then guys normally.

Here are some good responses, but again if you got torqued from her rude statement, it obviously threw you off balance.

"true, but I have a large penis"
"I just do this for fun, I'm a real estate mogul on the side"
"i'm not just a cashier, I'm the all time best cashier you have ever met"
"whoa, that was kind of inappropriate, lets get back to the girl I like"

Anyway the best way to pas a shit test when you cant think of an immediate comeback is just to smile slyly and shrug while holding strong eye contact. This tells her your in emotional control and arnt going to get affected by her shit test. Controlling the frame through the shit test is the goal.

Ideally you want to confront your limiting beliefs.

I went out of my way to tell women that I have no money, live at home at first, and did it congruently without trying to impress.

After a while they would just bring me back to their place and pay for a cab lol.

They want to see you are ok with your current situation.

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here are a few ideas for you of some things that I would say in your situation try to think of the context of the lines instead of just adding the lines to your reserve, eventually you will run out of lines,

option one, ignore the test and say something completely off topic, the more off topic it is the more fun I find it is to say

''you know... snails have four noses, that is so weird, imagine for a second how much more you could smell if you were a snail''

option two, agree and make the judgement she put on you seem retarded

''you are so right, I'm going to go kill myself now, cashiers are the worst kind of people''


option three, shit test her right back

''you don't know?, what is it that you do know?''

''really? are you are rich?''

''hold this for a second'' (give her something to hold or some sort of other command, then change topic)

option four, show disinterest in the test and break the rapport with her to encourage she stops testing

(mimic her in a stupid voice), change subject

turn your back on her/ignore her for a second or two

just look at her like she has done something socially awkward and say,
''ok?''

say something sexual,
''too bad, you might have gotten laid if you played your cards right''

it is also helpful to handle the test in a way that is appropriate to the vibe of the conversation, for example if she is being sarcastic, you responding in a sarcastic way will probably hit the vibe