So, I'm from Manchester in England, just turned 18 years old.

Basically I'm sick of wasting the life I have. I had slept with 7 girls by the time I was 17 and I was quite confident, since then I've been in a relationship and I feel like I'm dead and I feel stuck. My confidence is incredibly low, I have just started college about a month ago and I seriously can't hold much of a conversation with anybody now, I've wasted the last year of my life doing nothing and the side effects definitely show.

I honestly can't wait to get started but the biggest problem I face is that none of my friends have the same outlook as me and I don't know where to find like-minded people (obviously this is a forum full but I mean locally). Any advice will be appreciated.

google search for a local lair, they will likely have monthly events, if they don't then get involved and set one up!

Be proactive and you will connect with some quality guy's : )

Cheers!

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Thanks man seriously appreciated!

I don't want to flame dude, but this might not be the right place for a problem such as yours. Many of the people on this forum have suffered lives of crushing desperation, loneliness and sexual frustration and have turned to the game as a way to gain a sense of power over their own lives. Many didn't sleep with a girl until well into their twenties. You are complaining about a year of having a girlfriend.

If you feel yourself stagnating, or brought down by a girl and you want something more exciting or fulfilling - dump her. It certainly wouldn't be the first time an incoming college freshman dumped their high school girlfriend. You obviously have the skills you need to make it in the single life - all you have to do is repeat what you did a year ago.

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Thanks for the reply, if you thought I were being out of order with what I said let me explain just exactly why this means my life too me.

Getting women is more of a lifestyle choice, it's a huge commitment for me and this seriously won't be easy, especially considering I've just ended it with the girl I spoke about in the last post.

For a while now I've gotten seriously depressed and I remembered the times when I felt fully in the moment and enjoying my life and that was when I were going out and sharing experience with females. Since then though a whole lots changed I lack confidence, seriously dude my social skills are poor, I don't even feel like my life has meaning.

I'm not searching for meaning in other girls though as I'm aware this is dangerous and foolish, I definitely wouldn't sleep with a girl to justify my ego or make me feel powerful, infact your ego and wanting to please only yourself is the thing that holds you back from enjoying life. I'm choosing this lifestyle which obviously includes focusing on other aspects of my life other than just females like self improvement, self love, love for my family, friends, not taking life too seriously and my health. Basically knowing myself, in other words my inner game. It all ties together as a lifestyle and way of being that I see as the right way.

Anyway, I hope you understand a little more now why I have joined this site and feel that I can make a contribution. I also joined to see if there were any fellow PUA's in Manchester. I also joined because as you can see I am just starting my journey and first I am getting over my personal issues, I have a long way to go.