Hi All

Im just sharing my experience from last night as I need to learn and improve how to do better next time.

I went out with my non-pua friend last night as I was borred. He was with a group of male work friends so 5 lads all together. The conversations were generally good and nice guys but we where drinking too much and not talking to any women it reminded me of my old self to be honest.

By the time we had got to the 3rd pub i wondered if we where going to talk to any women at all. My mate who is a bit simple and childish pointed to some fat girl at the otherside of the bar and said oh thats your one mate.

I told him that he should talk to everyone as a friend even the fat women...as its good to be like that and anyway she might have a fit friend.

A bit latter the fat girl (sorry dont know her name) said something to my mate then came over and started to talk to him. Before we new it her other fat friend came over and started talking to us...but wait for it then another friend who was really fit sat on the sofa arm rest to my left.

I got talking to her she asked what do I do ( i said mountain biking and running I hate talking about my day job IT as i think they class me as a geek straight away)

She said she was a personal trainner and that she was 25! if any of you have read my previous posts I had a serious case of one itis with a personal trainner at my gym (shes left now) i thought it was ironic that i had spent 4 months fantasiing about this first PT and bang there was another one this time in a social venue.

She was a nice girl but im sure she was demonstrating higher value to me as a few things she did and said where a bit arrogant i.e she said she gets paid £500 a session to model on a particular brand of exercise machine.

She said she lived in the same town as me she told me the road she lived on when i told her where i lived she pulled a bit of a face as to say it was cheap or something i wish i had negged her on both these issues.

She said she went to the same gym as me and suggested we go together.
After about 30 mins her friends left and she said she had to go we asked her where she was going she said she didn't know. She was about to leave so i go up and asked her again where she was going she didnt know so i asked for her number she gave me it then repeated it then said bye.

I left it an hour then text her "Hay mrs personal trainer what pub you go to?" trying to be funny but she didnt reply.

It was a big ego boost to get her number but as i told my mates work colleages it dosent mean anything as you can't f*** a number.

Is it worth me txting her again or phoning her?
When girls ask me what do I do I dont want to tell them I work in IT as i think they will think its boring should i just lie or be honest?

If you can go out with your friends all night and have fun night, without even talking to women, the rest will follow. You will literally have nights were you open 1 set and it will go so well, other sets will just get in the way

Yeah i think you are right ive deleted this girls number now anyway her loss