I hang around the help centre in my university to help first year students with programming in my free time, I get to go over my basics and hey, it's always cool to feel like a boss

One of the girls was sitting next to the other girl I was helping. My first impression of her was, holly shit, she's fucking gorgeous, like super model gorgeous, way out of my league. I didn't bother talking to her, because I assumed that she'd only go for 6 foot + guys, with 18 packs and shiz (I'm good looking myself, but I'm not over 6 foot, and I don't have a ripped body.)

I helped her still, keeping my distance and not getting personal, but I was surprised, she started talking to me, she asked "I like your accent, where are you from?" and we had a small talk, then I told her I had to go, and wished her luck in her course.

A month later, we met again, this time not in the help centre. She remembered my name, I forgot hers (felt awkward like shit bro), anyway, she started talking about her bf and complaining about him being a psycho and being over possessive and all that shit, and that he scares her. I kind of brushed it off.

I was extremely shocked. How can a gorgeous girl like her, easily a 9, can have such a big heart. One thing led to another, and she found herself opening up to me, she told me about an incident that happened to her in her life in Serbia, and she started tearing up, so I rubbed her leg, and told her, "hey, let's find something to cheer you up"

The next day on Facebook chat she told me that she doesn't know why she told me what she told me, not any of her friends, nor her boyfriend knows that about her. So I told her, hey, I'll tell you one of my secrets and we'll be even I told her, and she also started tearing up.

Later, we were playing truth or dare, I asked her

"would you see yourself with me?"
she said:
"I can't answer that right now. As far as I know, I'm spending the rest of my life with my bf"

so fellows, what do you think I should do?

Drop it, or keep trying?

By the sounds of it you're in the friend zone.

Thought so

I blew it didn't I?

Oh well, plenty or gorgeous girls out there. I'm still learning

...ok, read this slowly, to guarantee it gets in your head.

YOU ARE NOT A THERAPIST

You will never get a girl by listening to her bitch about her bf, then saying "I'm clearly a better choice." It wont' work because any time you put a bf down, you are putting the girl down as well. You insult the bf, declare him inferior, you are attacking her judgement of character and her taste in men.

yeah but dude, I never told her I'm a better choice.

I just keep it to myself

When she talks about him, I would just nod, or say I understand, until she says anyway.. and changes conversation.

I guess he's right, I'm friend zoned haha, but I guess, since she's good looking, she has good looking friends. So it works out well

But when a girl complains about her bf, what would you say?

Just curious

I'm learning

She sounds genuinely scared of her boyfriends...wtf

At times she's scared of him, then at times she thinks he's the sweetest thing ever.

I don't get this shit. It's like mind fuck.

Stop being her therapist, increase incidental KINO.

...Goddammit.

THIS GIRL WILL NEVER DATE YOU!

She will stay with her boyfriend, but when she's down in the dumps she now has you, the gay friend, to bitch to for a night.

Yes, that's correct, you are the gay friend. You are the emotional crutch she can use to support herself in bad times. But eventually, people put the crutches away and start walking again. You are a quick fix. You will not fuck this girl. Go game other girls.

noted, so I'll try to put my hand on her knee or her arm when she sits next to me?

lol alright,

I agree with you, I'm too nice to her, and she's a sweet soul, I'll pick a bitch to play

I like your honesty dude, thanks.

No more approaches for her, thread closed

in my experiences, they just want attention