hahahaha i guess some guys do think logically. theres some tough love for ya

Update: Got a date with her on Tuesday after all our classes are finished. I didn't specify to her over the phone to meet at her place, instead I'll push that when we're in person.

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i've done it before and i was 12. if i can do it anyone can

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So despite her saying she is married, she came up to me and said "you dont need to help me, stay standing there, looking cute." and "you didnt say hi to me monday!"


So.......i guess im just gonna keep my mouth shut now and bait her a bit with my weekend plans (hopefully she'll invite). Clearly shes married and unhappy.

Allright romeo - how'd it go? Bang her yet?

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Actually, she keeps making sexual comments and pinching me, ect.... yet no invite.

I just find it really hard to believe shes just looking for attention when its THAT sexual.

For cripes sakes the broad said "nice pole" to me when i was fixing something, and i go yes i know i have one. she just goes "so i hear."

But no invites, or asking for number, ect.

I haven't really had the scenario to talk to her alone tho, as far as baiting her with stuff, as other people are around, but as soon as I do I'l make sure to.....

and dont worry....i have another girl

The kino is good - you need to reciprotate. Take her hand. Hold it with both hands, longer than you would otherwise feel comfortable. Its all about amping up her desire - the invitation will come. But don't play hard to get = make yourself available - GO to the Christmas party, do find reasons to be around her. She'll slip up and then be yours.

Happy hunting and report back soon

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dude, congrats to you if she's hot ! haha

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So I have not had much of a chance with her alone, in a long time as the place we work is busy for the holiday season. The last time I did, was pre thanksgiving. Lately, I see her briefly and shes preoccupied and says good morning, dealing with the public so its tough.

I found out she has three kids...two nearly my age and a young young one. Her husband is supposedly a jackass/alcoholic, but some kid says she wont leave him. He is supposedly a good decade or so younger then him as well. Do you think a few weeks of not seeing her much/ barely any interaction but hello will kill this situation? Also, supposedly she has expressed that she only has sex with her husband to get things from him, and he is needy.

Pre thanksgiving was when she was initiating kino by pinching me ect, but some other kid pinched her in the side right after this (she did not initiate with him tho), which leads me to believe she loves the attention. Supposedly she does not do this to the extent with these other guys then with me, so I hear from reliable sources. She seems to LOVE my physical build from several comments about muscles.

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[quote="Lionheart9999"]So this chick at work has shown me a shitload of IOI's, I think:

-says hi to me first
-says come talk to me
-has hugged me before and went "ooh" at musculature
-has called me handsome after i made a sarcastic remark
-asked if I missed her last week
-instead of me emailing her something, she said you should take me

There are a few problems. She is roughly 7-10 years older then me, has a kid, and just finished a divorce. I am in my early 20s, so she is in her sexual prime.

So today, I think i made a mistake, but I'm not sure, since she is the older one who has to prove shes still the attractive one to younger guys, am I right?"

I complimented her for the first time, on her hair color. I said "whats this going on? red is my new favorite color" and she said "that was sweet of you!" and I go "that wasnt sweet" and I leave.

But the thing is gentlemen, I have youth on her, and she might be vulnerable at this time due to her divorce. Don't get me wrong, shes hot, but is it ok to compliment older women in this scenario MORE then I would with a younger broad?[/quote][b



First off, the fact that you refer to her as a broad shows how little you think of women. If you dont respect another, you wont get any respect in return.

The things you list as problems arent problems, you only see them that way because youre so
inexperienced youre insecure as to what to do with that. Older, has a kid, divorced, so what? Those
are things that can work in your favour.

Dont ever think because someone is older than you and you have youth, that you have the upper hand. Your looks and youth mean nothing to an older woman, especially if youre a tool.

If you want to compliment her do so, evrrybody, even men like compliments. Didnt she compliment you? Dont be an ass, relax and stop overthinking it and have fun and you just may have the time of your life.

Older women are amazing in bed, can teach you many things, and if they have thier shit together, wont put up with your freshman bullshit theyve seen before.
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