Didn't know where to put this so i figured general discussion is a safe bet.

After a botched attempt of kissing a girl (pretty damn botched), well I just said to her "I want to kiss you." and she said no. It was kinda weird, oh well. At least i did something.

Anyway we were talking on facebook about attraction, and she sent me this, I just want an oppinion on it.

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I guess to sum it up, I can see other girls finding you attractive... and I like your features and what makes you you. However if we were strangers you wouldn't be someone who I'd point out to my friend as being someone I find especially good looking. I DO find you a good looking guy. And I can see other girls having that desire. But in my eyes you don't stand out in the way you do to other girls; so even if we were strangers I would not want to kiss you. I would NEVER be repulsed. I just wouldn't have the desire, and that is all.

We both need to find people who appreciate us, who find us VERY attractive, and want to be with only us.

I completely agree----and you know, I love having long talks with my close friends. None of this upset me. I thought it was useful and interesting. I'm glad all this got brought up:)]

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she was my friend already so this was a bit expected, but I still found this interesting.

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For some reason I don't see this as a shit-test. I just think she placed you a long time ago in the friend zone, and although she may want to remain friends with you, she is being really polite about telling you that you have no chance with her.

Maybe the interaction was pushed at some point, and the fact that you went with the "I want to kiss you" and she flat-out said "No" tells me that there's just no attraction there.

Move on, and good luck.

My 2 cents.

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she is just being nice and as far as ur attractiveness it doesnt matter as much as the fact that u lacked greater value ... is basically what she said move on stop ur wasting ur time

eh i figured as much here, I'm not going after this girl anymore. She is just going to be a friend unless something ends up changing lol

I was just confused as to how you can be seen as a good looking guy, but not sexually attractive. i mean i guess i can understrand cuz some girls are liek that, idk its just weird

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how did this turn out??

Don pretty much hit this spot on.. I just wanna say that im honored to be in your signature bro lol..

Yea dude, every woman isn't going to be attracted to you no matter how good looking you are. Its just not possible.. She's one of the few, you have a lot more women that are going to come along

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Good! you decided to stop wasting your time and get on with it. and you managed to figure this out for yourself. Its not about getting the girl as a final result. This is a successful result I say.

It turned out ok. I was a little disappointed that I didn't just make a move but I suppose what I did took courage as well. I'm just going to be friends with this girl. To be honest I never really cared that much about getting with her, i suppose it was just a curiosity thing. It is a little disconcerting to think that a friend finds you unattractive, but I don't think that's exactly the case, kind of like how you can think someone is hot but not necessarily have the desire to be with them.


I'm glad I don't have to stress about it anymore, the fact It didn't work is a little disappointing, but I suppose i can just consider it experience. The only thing now is that weird empty feeling of where to go from here, who to go after, ect.

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