| I went out tonight (wednesday) at the local club. Not too busy tonight, but enough people to have a small crowd (it is a college town).
So I walked in, used the stealth attraction methods. I forced IOI's as I moved about the club and opened several sets. Many of the sets had boyfriends or other male obstacles (Still haven't practiced neutralizing male obstacles). I eventually found a 3 set, all female, with the target sitting in the middle (HB8). I forced the IOI on the target and opened the group. Gave myself a false time constraint, and took a seat. After being friendly to her friends for a few moments, I ran a couple of routines on the target. The friends seemed interested, but also recognized that things were going well for me and my target, so they excused themself to get a drink, and didn't come back. I moved the target to standing for a while.. "I just can't sit for too long, I have too much energy, let's get a drink!" She agreed, so I took her hand and lead her to the bar. There was loud music, so she couldn't hear what I ordered (Tonic and lime). She ordered a cranberry vodka and looked at me expectantly, as if I were supposed to pay for her drink, then she reached into her pocket and bought her own drink.
I can't be sure if this was a shit test, or if I was supposed to buy her drink because I suggested we go get one at the bar, so I need some feedback on this one.
We turned around at the bar and continued our conversation. What really got her hooked was when I asked what she did for a living, she told me, and then I asked "why"? She was taken aback by the question, because she was expecting something along the lines of "Do you like it?" When I asked why, it forced her to do more than let me scratch the surface of her personality. She was not only enticed to tell me about her deeper feelings about her professional life, but she almost had to open up to me. I was able to recognize this process. As we talked about her inner thoughts, I started touching lightly to emphasize certain phrases, and eventually had my arm around her. The push-pull method applied to my kino as well. After a few more minutes, I had k-closed and # closed.
This is my 3rd time out sarging in the last week, and I'm still new to this community, but I've taken the principles I've learned here, and put them to use. I've found it's easy to watch the process of attraction once you learn the principles in your own way. For instance, you can write them down over and over. You can meditate on situations. Personally, I do a little of both, and immersing myself in the process of attraction has gotten me my first k-close since I joined the pua community in just a couple of weeks. Obviously, everyone starts on different levels, so a couple of weeks maybe too fast to expect anything. I may have just gotten lucky, but something tells me that watching the progress as it went, and acting accordingly tilted the scales in my favor.
Also, one of my sticking points had been kino, and I've found I'm much more comfortable going kino from a standing position, rather than sitting. Something else I'll have to work on.
Male obstacles terrify me because I don't want to force an IOI, get a good response, only to be blown out by the amog bf. My options will greatly expand if I can move past opening and hooking with the male obstacles still there. Any suggestions?
Feedback, both positive and negative critizism is welcome and appreciated.
-Ruggedized
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