You know that awful feeling when you open indirectly and the girls look at you, roll their eyes and just continue talking?

Yeah, that NEVER happens to me.

Being direct is a very high-impact approach. Girls that are interested have never been more attracted. Girls that aren't interested at all are usually incredibly complimentary about my confidence and honesty, and are very polite and often even apologise for having to turn me down. There is no going back!

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Hellou.


I am gaming an older women, well ar least i am trying to .
I was thinking about it, and she might think of me as inmature and childish, but to be honest, i am very lively and sometimes i just cant help it XD.

I still go to highschool and she is about 7-8 years older then me, we dance in a folklore group together and she is really really hot.
Could you please give me some assistance.

That is a large age gap at a particularly stark time. Girls are already very different at university vs. once they leave, let alone in high school! It is highly likely that she assumes you are very immature and probably doesn't see you as a candidate for a relationship, unless you have a physical presence and personality that is incredibly mature for your age. I would honestly advise you to keep her as a friend - you can learn a huge amount from having a good female friend and listening to her about what's going on in her life and trading relationship stories, etc.

Also, if you do try and make a move - you're in a closed social circle situation so you'd have to see her often, which means if it goes bad, you have to see her all the time, and if it goes well, then you see your gf all the time, and then if you break up you have to see your ex all the time! It's best to practice your cold approach on people you don't know FIRST so you build the skills to escalate properly, then go for trickier social circle situations where you have to know what you're doing and be more sure that you're not gonna fuck it up.

There are plenty of really hot girls - try sticking to ones your own age with whom you have something in common and who will likely be much more receptive to your approach!

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I didnt intend of having a relationship with her, my main idea was simply to try with her because i would never forgive myself not for trying it. It doesent matter if i get rejected, i still could learn a lot from her.


Physicaly i look mature enough and i can be mature.
And i didnt intend to try something with her right now, becouse in april we will be going on a large one month tour in Australia and who knows, i just might get something. If i fail, well.. there are 30 other girls in the ensamble ^^ and i will learn something.

But thank you anyway.

hey ryan, i got a question. if your approaching a physically beautiful girl is it a bad idea to open with a compliment about her physical appearance?

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It's a GREAT idea, and it's the ONLY way I approach now, because it's honest, confident and direct.

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hey, i broke up with my ex about 1 month ago and she dont wanna talk to me at all.. i still got some feelings for her. any suggestions on what to open with?

Don't contact her at all until you've had sex with at least 2 or 3 women.

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hey ryan please reply asap the date is in 2 days!!

so i met these 2 girls outside of a club and brought them back to my place.. both of them were pretty sober and so was i.. both had bfs, one left and i was left alone with the other one whos a 9 has a bf for 5 months and is over all a very goody goody type girl whos only had 2 bfs in the past rarely goes out and parties etc.. we had the best convo ive personally ever had witha girl she stayed here till5 am sat on a diff couch almost no kimo or talk about sex drove her her home kissed her on the cheek and went home,. texted she replied nicely and we said wer going to hang out and got a "date".. i wasnt sure at any point if she wanted me to kiss her or sleep over,,. she seems intrested but i want to know the best way to execute it considering she has a bf and is a good type of girl ( btw i dont want to just sleep with i wouldnt mind her as a gf)

The best way to find out if a girl is interested is to escalate. Escalating too fast or too soon will usually not hurt your chances in any way. The girl will just say "slow down."

NOT escalating, however, has a much higher chance of killing your opportunity. This is because your initial interactions with her set the frame of your future ones, and give her an impression of the kind of guy you are: A guy that doesn't even try to have sex with her and doesn't really flirt, but has a really nice platonic conversation until 5 am whilst sitting on a separate couch not touching = a pussy = a FRIEND.

You can try and meet up with her and actually escalate. Don't be surprised if she gives you the "but I thought we were friends!"

Next time, make it easier on yourself - escalate earlier and game girls who are actually SINGLE.

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Dear Ryan,

A while back, me and about 5 mates decided that we wanted to improve our women skills, so we began learning about PUA... But when we began, we agreed that we wouldn't use PUA techniques on a particular group of girls, who we wanted to keep as just friends and make sure there was no clear AMOG among us with them... But recently, the group of friends were at a lakehouse and one of my mates started using techniques on the girls... We didn't think much of it at the time, but now he's clearly trying to be the AMOG, and is using all the indirect Pick up techniques on them and being very possessive... So I was wondering if there was some way I could stop him, cause it feels wrong to watch two of my bestows being manipulated... If you get what I mean. In your response, please bear in mind I am still fairly new...

*besties

Just talk to the guy in private and remind him that you all agreed to not game those girls and you know what he's doing. If he really is your friend he should understand.

That said, there is nothing to fear from a guy trying to be an "AMOG." If you have fun within the group, and have solid relationships with all the people in the group, then one guy hogging the spotlight isn't going to suddenly destroy that. Have confidence in yourself - one guy with some silly tricks he just learned is no match for a guy who is authentically himself, has fun, makes people around him feel happy, and is trustworthy and loyal as a friend.

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Hey Ryan, I posted this already, but I would like your opinion on it. Don't know if it has been asked before. So it's probably pretty overrated but if you just randomly add a HB10+ on facebook and she accepts. What would be a good opener then?

Sup Ryan,
Gotta ended LTR been broken up for two months dated for two years.... we have a baby together (just adding it in)
So we had a breakup during a small argument, after her brother got into our small debate and ended up fighting with me. her parents said I couldnt't come over anymore... blah blah.... (just holding off a bit to make sure things are truly ended before I go for custody) The thing is, she is showing alot of IOI's let me put some examples:
1. She called and set up a day to spend with me (so i could see our child)
during this day she flirted alot with hittign smiling, we play wrestled and there was a little sexual play during our big arena match lol...
2. I told her I'd tie her up if she didnt quit hitting me with the pillow and she said she might like it.
3. She had many places to go with her friends for new years and instead she went with me to a party where I overheard her tell a guy me and her was dating. and when we went to bed she slept in my bed (no sex ) and made smart comments like she didnt want to sleep where I had sex with other girls, obviously trying to figure out if I did.
4. she keeps trying to get me to bring stuff over or order things for her online if she gives me the money.
5. I asked for a picture of my daughter and she sent ten one of them had her in it very dressed up.


I have asked about us and she gives many different excuses it's never the same one... usually goes something about her parents will give her hell, I argued too much (not really that bad)... she just wants to be single.... things like that.... but sometimes she wil slip up and say something about being with me in the future... What are your thoughts? parents are in the picture way too much btw her sister had the same problem til she finally moved out...