Sup guys,

Here's my situation: i used to be jealous. I let her do her thing, i let her party alone (i trust her). She does what she wants.

But, when she starts talking about another guy, i still feel the jealousy, like she says: Everybody left, and i stayed with x,i don't feel comfortable. I don't tell her this.

The thing is, i think i'm only staying with her, becuase i don't want to see her get fucked by some other dude.

It's part of inner game (my guess) I know what to think, but i still feel it, it's not rooted in me.

Anyone has problems with that? Know a solution to my situation?

thanks

i joke about it.

i would actively encourage her to take advantage of situations like that to score "a piece of ass" lol

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Sounds like you have party girl thats a red flag to me. Also sounds like you didn't establish some rules early on in the relationship.

Think about this your girlfriend is hanging out drinking partying till 3am or 4am what could she possibly be talking about with some possibly drunk guy that late.

I know if I was that guy hanging out with your girl at 4am all im thinking about is tapping your girls ass. He's not thinking oh she has a boyfriend i better not try anything.

You can choose stay in the middle ground where you have no control. The situation's only going to get worse. Or you can take action talk to her about how you feel about her hanging out with these guys.

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ahaha I do exactly what mack said after she has a night out with the girls...

me: "did you pick up last night?"
her: "nah although some guys tried blah blah"
me: "well you should've hooked up! bugger, maybe you'll get lucky next time"

said with a cocky smile it always gets a good reaction But I trust my girl completely and she's not staying back at parties with a guy for an extra hour, I can definitely see your concern there. I'd be having a chat with her, or making yourself less available.

Go to a party without her, and shoot the shit with a girl, alone, at 4am. See how your girlfriend likes it.

She is a girl in a committed relationship acting like she's single. If she's with her girlfriends, let her do whatever she wants. You've met them, you've made a good impression, and they'll keep her in check.

You don't put yourself in shady circumstances. Granted, she could've lied to you about where she was or never mentioned this guy, but she is also aware your imagination will picture the worst and telling you anyway.

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

When you're game gets really good, then you stop being jealous. You start to notice all of the stupid AFC-mistakes that 95% of guys make ALL THE TIME. When you have good game, then you start to notice all of the married women and women with boyfriends who are checking you out.

Most guys are a joke.. I get to hear all of my (poly-) girlfriend's horror stories about dudes she meets online or out at the bars. I'm actually happy for her when she finds a half way decent one because I never have a problem finding cool women to have sex with.

On the off chance that my poly-girlfriend does meet a guy with rock solid game (very rare), then I usually end up getting along with him really well.

Let's face it guys.. we are the elite. All other men don't stand a chance. What's there to be jealous about?

lol this also what i do

because almost all woman i've dated .. woman i know .. the Gf's of my friends they all fucking cheat , flirt with other guys including me... all woman are the same bro... you need to open your eyes, if your girlfriend would meet brad pitt she would jump on his dick from across the room. She will dump your fucking ass in a heartbeat...

the reason why you are feeling this is because you are putting huge value on your girlfriend... im not putting value on anyone, because they will lie and they will manipulate and they will cheat ... just like all humans do and did for last hundred of thousands of years.
fuck yeah .. do you think all those chodes look on forums .. do you think they read material and go out sarging alone ..

nobody does .. only this handfull of people..

i have seen the coolest guys ( who don't know of game and pickup or this forum ) performing the most retarded mistakes...it's hilarious...on first sight i was intimidated by these guys but after a while they seemed like fucking crybabies.

most tried to teach alot of men how to pickup woman , i have tried to make alot of men more succesfull in life in general and THEY all rejected the idea....called it gay or not true at all - they didn't believe in the possibility...

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All woman cheat. Al woman are manipulative. Jump on Brad Pitt dick's as soon as she sees him.

Come on man, be serious. I agree that there's only a minority of good woman, but they do exist.

Obviously, not those that you pick up from the disco...

lol ... i agree there are good woman around ...

1 for every 100.000

good luck finding that good one..

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Hey guys...

Thanks for all the posts, they helped!! Found some sort of "mental cure"...

Eventually the worst that can happen, is that i get time to improve my PUA-Skills...

Pretty good for a worst-case-scenario

I'm currently in a healthy relationship with a girl that genuinly seems to care/love me.


But really: while it is true that good girls are rare, it is equally true that such negative mindset isn't particularly going to help you in your search for a good GF (assuming that is your goal)

Jealousy is NEVER a good thing on the side of men. For women, it’s different. If your girlfriend gets jealous or senses competition from another girl, it INCREASES the attraction she feels for you. Women want men who are wanted. When a GUY gets jealous of ANOTHER guy, it DECREASES your girlfriends attraction for you and INCREASES her attraction towards the other guy. Your jealousy of some other guy is a sign that he is superior to you. And as a result, your girlfriend is naturally inclined to be drawn towards whoever you’re jealous of.

Ok so.. wtf do you do? Always ACT CONFIDENT. Be a pro con-artist. Even if some guy with metallic balls twice as big as yours is talking to your girlfriend, don’t say shit. If your girlfriend is talking with other guys, talk to other girls. Make sure you DON’T tell her something like “can you please stop talking to other guys,” If you do, then you might as well donate your balls to charity. If your ever in doubt of what to do, ask yourself, “What would James Bond do in this scenario?”

Sometimes having a background check about yourself and what you feel about her helps. Woman needs to feel they are important, BUT they can also SENSE that you want them as a PROPERTY and not as loverr. You have to be honest to each other and talk things liek your future plans. If your only with her because you want to fuck her, then i suggest both of you make it clear.

[quote="Lodewijkp"]lol ... i agree there are good woman around ...

1 for every 100.000

good luck finding that good one..[/quote]

Come one, that's too much negative thinking...

I've been with my bf for 7 years and never did I even though about cheating on him, he was the one who did it.

Should I think every man will cheat?

That's the same kind of mentality...