Girl I'm currently fucking has herpes. She doesn't know if she has type 1 or 2. I asked her to do some blood tests to see which type she has. She said ok. She said she got tests recently for everything else and came back negative.

Today she called and said she's going to the lab on Friday. I asked if she was gonna do all the tests, and she said no, only for herpes because she's kind of broke at the moment (also no health insurance), and she did them recently so no need.

Would it be too beta for me to say, "do them all, here's the money"? I figure it's my health we're dealing with, and I'm having unprotected sex.

if you love the girl, go for it.

if not, kind of silly to be buying std tests for former crack-whore giant-dong-sucking herpes-infested streetrats.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Not Beta at all, give her the money and tell her that you're concerned for both of your health and safety.