Ok guys. It happens in quite a few relationships and sometimes, it's only a matter of time. I've been in a relationship with this girl for a lil over two months now. She broke up with her ex about 6 months ago. Anyways, her ex is starting to contact her again. I am not sure how often or when it started but I've witnessed it a couple of times. He's called her once when I was with her and I saw that he texted her as well. How should I go about this and should I even do anything about it? Im not too worried about it, but it still has to be somewhat of a concern...

train her.

when she does it, remove positive attention.

when she doesn't, apply positive attention.

that is what i would do.

others may have better advice.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Tell her you don't like it.

Btw. How did you "see that he texted her"?

Personally? I ignore petty crap like this. Be Confident that you are better than all the other guys in her life. Confidence is sexy.

Anyway, Mack's advice is always sound. Reward the behavior you like and withhold your attention when she's doing something you dislike.

-Wolf

You should be confidant in your relationship. As a pua you should know enough to keep your girl happy with you and know how to make sure she stays attracted to you. So the ex should be a non issue. And if something happens where she does for some reason end up going back to him, then she's a cheating bitch and wasn't worth it anyway.

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