Ok so let me tell u guys the situation me and three of my mates were out and we met three girls and I got all their numbers but I like one more than the rest so i added her online as well but she talks more to my mate than me any way I can make her mine.

Read around the forum how to game a girl, then do that.

It would probably also help to stop thinking in terms of "MAKING her MINE." I mean, that does sound a little bit psychotic so it wouldn't hurt to chagne your way of thinking a bit.

ok mate thanks and yeah i will do
can u just drop me a link to a thread you know kinda point me in the right direction

online-direct-to-date-vt57068.html

It's hard explaining some conversational skills but it comes down to not asking too many questions but making open ended statements. Get to emotions as quickly as possible.

This is good stuff: 36-questions-in-45-minutes-make-any-2-p ... 20045.html

(disclaimer: don't go rattling off all those questions. Use them with care.)


And oh yeah: make her invest. As soon as you notice she's not responding or giving short answers like haha, chances are she doesn't care. Do not try to mend it by telling pointless stories yourself. It will only make things worse. Ask one of those questions above and then let her respond to it.

thanks for the questions there really useful
and yeah I know about the open statements I use those