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PostPosted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 4:50 am 
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So I met a really hot girl and got her number last weekend, but when I texted her (2 days later) she didn't respond. I really thought there was interest and that we would end up going out on a date. I would appreciate any insight. Here is what happened:

I approached the bar, and saw the girl with a friend to the left of me, having just taken a shot. I turned my head to the side and asked them what kind of shot it was, they said tequila, I asked what brand, she said patron. We talked briefly about tequila and how "Avion" tequila is apparently a real brand (there were posters for it in the bar, it's the shit from Entourage, which apparently is a real brand). They paid for their shots and before I said something like "ok, have fun," and turned to order my own drink. The girl I was interested in turned back towards me, touched me on my arm, and shot me a smile. I thought I sensed interest.

A while later, before I left the bar, I got up the courage to talk to her again. I went up to her (she was standing near the bar) and asked if she wanted to try a shot of Avion tequila, she said sure. I walked towards a free spot at the bar to see if she would leave her friends and follow me. She did. While I was waiting for the bartender, she went back over to see her friend briefly (not far away) and told me to get her when I was ready. Bartender poured the shots, and she came back over. Her friend came too and I talked to both of them. Typical bar pickup conversation - age guessing, where are you from, etc. - ensued for 5-10 minutes. I then said my friends wanted to leave so I had to go find them, but we should talk more. She said 'yeah, I'll give you my #," and I took down her #. We hugged goodbye and I left feeling good about it. Two days later I texted her saying it was good to meet her, etc., but she didn't respond. I am kind of upset about it, but most importantly, I want to figure out what I could have done better.

Any insight would be much appreciated.


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PostPosted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 6:29 am 
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Congrats on going for it! Hate to break it to you but numbers mean nothing. I'd also stop buying girls drinks.


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 16, 2011 5:51 am 
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Thanks! There really is something to be said for the confidence you get when you go for it rather than wonder "what if." I almost never buy drinks for girls, I just made an exception here cuz it was a way to keep talking to her when she seemed like she was intent with just talking and dancing with her friend and wasn't letting guys approach her.


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 17, 2011 8:36 pm 
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2011 8:50 pm 
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you just didn't build up any kind of connection with her thats all.. you didn't even kiss her... no point her returning your text...

next time, build a better connection with her, and use future pacing....


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