At work and this new co-worker started the other day, cute girl. We made small talk and she took my blackberry and insisted that i take her pin. Didnt really pay her any mind until another co-worker said that out of all of the other staff, Im the one she would fuck. Now…With that being said, BBMs conversations were happening, sometimes she'd start them.

Yesterday, She ignored a BBM read message, and I just told her "Oh okay, thats cool"

Then all of a sudden she tweets that im too sensitive.

I still wanna persue her tho

I'm going to go on a limb here and say that maybe that
"co-worker" gave you that confidence boost so you
would handle in the situation better. I mean,
how does the guy even know that she
would fuck you out of everyone
there? Is there like a secret
club in the office where she
gets together with a hole bunch of
workers and then she decides who looks
the most fuckable and is going to be able to pound
her the next week? Highly unlikely. This chick sounds (no offence)
like the office slut looking to get the next orgasm from the office fuck
buddy off of.

If you don't come off as desperate and less needy for her affection
then she will be less likely to dominate any future situations you
have with her, display your value to her so that she can invest
in you better rather than seeing you as a piece of meat.
Office rumors spread quickly and the last thing you
want is awkwardness in the workplace.

If you still want to persue it than go for it, but display
your value and don't be as needy or she will take
advantage of you and you will be her bitch.

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You were too sensitive indeed. If you want to pursue her you have to back off a bit. Not like "I'm hurt..." but more like "I'm fucking 20 other chicks...I don't have much time for drama" (totally different attitudes).

Around the office be fun to be around, and act all normal. Nothing really has happened, so don't become all clingy and/or bitter.

In her scoreboard you have a -1 for being soft. If you want this girl you'll need to show her reasons for her to get interested all over.

1. Don't go after her right now.
2. Keep things casual around the office.
3. Talk to everyone and make other women laugh.
4. If you come across her say hi, keep it simple, fun, and move on.
5. If you see she is starts to get interested in you again, simply act like this incident never happened. NEVER bring the fact that she didn't reply back. NEVER agree that you were ignoring her. Thats a common mistake many guys do.

My 2 cents.

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so you want to fuck her
So now I ask, have you learnt from your mistake?

The next girl that comes along, and yes there will be more.

Will you be too sensitive again?