Me and this girl had been together for nine months and for most of that time she was insane about me..Ill be honest she threated suicide if i left her sometimes. For about 3 months she got less attached.. I dont know what the hell happened but It was a mixture of relief and pain for me, she was losing feelings for me. I love her still.we broke contact for a while like 2 weeks and she emailed me telling me she wanted to try make us work as long as i didnt have to force us to work out and make us get along. It didnt go well..we met up and i asked afc questions like do u still love me? she said she does not know..then told me she didnt know if she wants to get back with me..then told me she wants to be friends, i got so pissed and hurt i left.. So this morning I emailed her asking to be friends..but I love this girl I want to be her perfect man. Even if she agrees to be friends its not what I want to be on the inside.

You have opened multiple threads on this girl. Not that im hating. Im respect that.

but you come here for help, and we try and help you but you dont seem to play it right.

If you wanna continue... on the wrong path, and go ahead, but i know ive given you advice to help you.

Im going to once again give you an advice. You probably going to ignore it and play like a totally jackass... yes that what you are you thinking emotional, because you are losing this battle ,and she is losing all respect she has for you.

Yes you are pushing her away with your afc behavior.

Stop with she loved me so much. she said she would comitee suicide, what is true today maybe is a lie tomorrow. Feelings changed... get used to this PLEASE


You want her back??

Live your life. Act like you have other girls.

Dont contact her, stop with emails.

She wants to be friends.... fuck her...

Ignore her ,if she contact for you a date postpone for days later.

When you see her act cool and neutral. LIKE SHE HAS NO CONTROL OVER YOU.

dont try anthing dont tell her you love her. if she wants to be friend, you are going to behave like she is the an ugly friend you have. Cocky and funny. And dont stay much long with her, she is not your friend or girlfriend, so she is not priority, so leave...

And PLEASE YOU ARE IN PUA FORUM SO TRY AND USE SOME OF THE TIME TO READ SOME MATERIALS ON STICKY, AND MAYBE GO OUT AND HAVE FUN FOR A CHANGE. FLIRT WITH GIRL.THIS WILL BOOST YOUR CONFIDENCE, AND SHE WILL PICK THIS.


When you do all of this, and this works and she contacts for a 2 time you may ask for help. if not you are beyond or help if you continue acting like that no chance, its like someone dying in a terminal disease no hope for him

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

If you're not going to take the help offered, stop posting on the forums. At the state you in you can never get her back. I can just tell by the way you're posting about. I have an EX that i kind of currently want back aswell, but you will never see me post about it because you can't get her back with emotions that extreme..
What you have now is the whip lash effect. Everything she claimed to feel for you during your relationship ( suicide etc) has been transferred over to you due to her letting it go. Now you have the baggage. The moment you make the decision to let her go she'll come running back. I don't know how it works but it does.

Me and my ex had broke up (mutual thing, but it hurt) and i was stressed, and hurting over it.. My buddies were kickin me in the ass about it. ANd the moment i said, "you know what! FUck THIS!" And i started approaching girls, she called me and threw me off my game smh.. Once you move on they come back.

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