Howdy fellas, I'm very new here, I hope this is the place to post this.
Anyways, I'm not new to the game, but I'm definetly not that experienced, especially in texting a girl. The story is, I hooked up with some random chick on the dance floor at a club on Saturday. Found her about a minute after that and asked for her number, got it and then went off elsewhere. I saw her a few more times that night around the club, but didn't chat with her further. She may have seen me on the dfloor several times after we hooked up trying to dance with other chicks, so might have thought I'm a bit of a sleaze. This leads me to my next part:

So I text her on Sunday evening, just saying the usual stuff, how was the rest of your night etc. it's now Tuesday morning and no reply. Normally in this situation I would drop the whole thing at the risk of looking desperate if I text twice without a response. But that was before I found this place. So my question is, do you guys have any marterial for these kind of situations to illicit that response?

She probably sees it as a club make out that means nothing. Don't bother. Save the number, if possible add it to a list of dead leads. Text her and all of the leads the same text once or twice every month.

Yeah I figured as much, cheers for the reply though. Guess I'll just leave it.

These dead leads you speak of, what kind of texts do you send them?

Yea dude.. wen you keep the leads current with 1 or 2 text a month, it sometimes lands in you getting a random lay during one of those times a girl just really needs some.. Wether its for a rebound or just one of those horny times.

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So what kind of texts are you guys sending these leads? I can imagine some girls would find it creepy to be gettin these texts from guys they've not shown any interest in.

It is a little creepy, and many girls will tell you to stop texting them. If they say that, do so, otherwise what's the harm? It may work out in your favor someday.

Bah, mass texting is not worth the money.

Just tell her you're disappointed cos you felt you really liked her (or better yet, felt a real connection, even mushier) and you'd be sad if you never saw her again.

It's really a last resort kind of thing(!!!), but many girls are more into a chance for a real connection than just some guy they made out with in a club if it's somewhat congruent (this is kinda essential) with your frame than they are into lame pickup messages and getting mass-texted to come to some party.

That˙s not a big deal to girls, that she dances with some guy and even gives him his number. If you didn`t escalate further and gamed her-that means you went for a KC, then she lost interest and when you wrote her the other day-it meant nothing to her. So, next time, you should escalate and go for it! Otherwise most of them lose interest.
If she writes you back, you can of course game her through texting, but if she doesn`t, don`t write her anymore.

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