Hi all, I went to religious function on last saturday. I saw a girl and i liked her. She also gave me some IOI thru eyes. She was looking at me in every 5 to 10 min. I knew that she liked me too. She gave me enough response to talk to her, but i couldn't. Because i was at religious function and whole community was there. She also talked to 2-3 old guys. So i was little scared to talk to her. Her friends were also know that i was interested. In short, I couldn't talk to her. I am in game from little while. I studied body language and inner game. I still cannot open. Now, i cannot forget that girl. I am feeling so sad that i didn't even try. Otherwise i could have her phone number. One more thing that i couldn't remember good opener that i could use in that kind of function. Can somebody please help me that how can i let it go? and forget all this. Girl was so my type. that's why i cannot forget her.
-mike

Let me see if I understood correctly:

Do you have a one-it-is syndrome with a cute girl you never talked to?

If so, I remember having that feeling a while back (around eight years ago), and one day I realized thet reason I had that one-it-is feeling was because that girl looked a lot like my ex, which obviously I still loved at the time.

Have a look there: how-to-get-over-your-ex-that-you-loved-vt117281.html

And print it for further reference when it may happen again.

Thanks jacob, Can you please also tell me that how can i start talking to girls at religious functions or any sober place where i cannot use any fun opener? Link is very good. i will try to follow it.

"Hey, you look like your having fun."
"Hey, are you friendly?"
Hey, do you know where x is?"

You don't need some spectacular opener. Anything will work as an opener if you deliver it right. It's not about what you do, but how you do it.

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You're welcome xxmike.

As Sparroww pointed out, what you say to first talk to a girl isn't that important, what really is important is the way you say it.

What I do, is to convince myself that whatever I will say to the girl I'm approaching is interesting, worth saying and good enough to get an answer or a positive reaction from her. Note that I'm talking about "convincing myself", because most of the time, I'll really not say anything vital, important or even worth sharing. But if you do convince yourself what you say is good, then the receiver will be convinced as well.

I haven't opened girls at religious meetings, so my advice might not be the best around. However, I suppose the main idea is to use situational openings, but words must be chosen more wisely, and the timing must be appropriate. It depends on your religious community, I know that in most christian churches you are not really allowed to speak during mass.

Anyhow, if you want to open girls at a gathering following the ceremony, one way you could open girls is to ask their opinion on what the religious leader said earlier.