My girl and I broke up. She wrote me this:

"Thank you so much for calling. I really appreciate it and no matter what I'll always like you...I just don't think it was meant for us...goodnight darlin (: I thank you for the past month and everything...you are a sweetheart and never give up dating..that lucky girl is out there waiting for you. Ily becuase I really care about you and I'm sorry it came down to this"

A) She still likes me and wants to increase sexual tension so she can have plausible deinability when we have make up sex

or...

B) She fucking hates me

What do you guys think! Thanks for checking out my post.

Man, you gotta stop thinking in black and white. Do you really think those are the only two options? she fucking hates you or she wants to sleep with you? SHe wasn't being cryptic! she was genuinely telling you that she doesn't want to date you anymore in a way that wouldn't hurt your feelings.

She want to be "Just friends", she just didn't use those words.

You were probably a really, really, really nice guy to her, so even though she doesn't want to be your girlfriend anymore, she doesn't want to hurt you either.

I could help more with some more background info though. Since I don't have that, I'll make some wild assumptions. Your probably kind of a shy guy without that much experience with dating. You are overly nice and polite and generous, and tried really really hard to make things work out with this girl. No matter how hard you tried, it seem like you could never please her. And she seem to be drifting away towards the end and wanting other things out of you and the relationship. You cared a lot about her, but was frustrated because you could never figure her out. And right now you're not sure how you ended up broken up.

It`s time to move on; fuck bitches get money.

Really easy this shit... she is telling you "lets be friend", but she is also telling that you still have shot "I'll always like you..." so she will want you around her for next past weeks. So she can manipulate and feel good about herself.

If you want her back cut contact now... dont ever call her again. let her contact and when she does be super neutral and cold. flake a few times and voila.

Like he said, she just wants to keep you around as a crutch, just in case her and the new guy she has already found don't work out.. Cut all contact, don't reply to her text or answer any of her phone calls until she comes begging... Basically just move on with you life and forget she exsist.

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1. LOL, LOL . . .

2. She's about as creative as a door knob. I bet if you googled any one of her phrases + "movie", you'd get multiple hits from various cheesy teenage 'love story" b movies.

3. She's disconnected with reality. She has underdeveloped lying skills.

4. I have a hunch that she's quite unintelligent but I'd need to see a more robust writing sample to substantiate this claim.

5. Wow, what a condescending little twit! "Never give up dating!" Ha ha ha . . . Did you tell her that you were going to jump off of a bridge since she dumped you?

So here it is. There is a difference between a being a gentleman and being suck-up monkey. You are a suck-up monkey. - "Oh no! Does she fucking hate me!?! Wahhh! " This is the reason you attracted a condescending loser in the first place. And unless you grow some balls (Betty White would tell you to grow a vagina http://www.practikel.com/2011/10/05/bet ... -pounding/ ) the next girl you meet will also treat you like a little punk. Why not? You treat yourself like one.

I'm going to peg you both to be no older than 17. If so, it's understandable that you guys are trying out different things but it's boring and pathetic that she's compensating for her lack of character by shopping for one from teenage bop movies. You are sucking up to ^this. This is bad.