Guys I'm currently in an AFC phase and was wondering, what's the best way to shut down a a girl who only want's to hang when she needs a confidence boost?.

Bit of history (4 dates, talks about nothing but herself, Dosent listen to anything I say, And i know its sad its taken 4 dates to realise this)


Cheers guys.

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"Alrightey then chaps, time to get shot down in flames!"

"talks about nothing but herself, Dosent listen to anything I say"

when this happens after half of one date you should wise up and bail, but im not blaming you, i was there myself once, at least you recognized the biggest sign of a time waster. As a side note, once this starts happening its almost impossible to turn around, so don't ever expect they will suddenly become attracted to you once they arnt.

I like this technique, next time she wants to hang out , text or tell her.

"Id love to just hang out with you but I have an uncontrollable urge to fuck you, so I don't think its a good idea"

this is crude and not particularly effective but it ends the nonsense on a high note. And it has worked for me before to open the convo on sex with no more bullshitting.