Guys,

Been talking to this girl for a few months, went to visit her and things didnt pan out the way I wanted. This girl would call/text me almost everyday the past 2 weeks leading up to my visit. She couldnt get enough. We dirty talked...she said bring condoms when i would go visit....she wanted it. I didnt pull the trigger but we still had a good time just hanging out. Now she wont pick up the phone or respond to any of my text messages... shes never done this before. Ever.

So I went back and was reading the game and styles ONE-ITIS with with LOisa. I never thought of this... but im feeling that this girl isnt mad @ me for not trying to bang her... but the fact that I didnt give her really any attention @ all when we were out @ the bar....( she was talking to her friends and I went off sarging other girls lol....ya). So im wonSdering this. Sytle went totally AFC and told this girl (liosa) that she was his one-itis. Thats all she needed to hear and BOOM... he was in.

SO...I was thinking about sending this girl flowers..going totally AFC. Wev played the hard to get games.... and i feel shes had enough of the BS (me mackin other girls... just playin her....not doing anything with her physically ect..). I also kno tho that going AFC for the most time isnt the way to go... bc ur showing so much interest in the girl that its going to turn her off. But when is there a point when u tell the girl that shes the one you want? Need some help here boys! Does the AFC move apply to my situation? This girl before I visited her literally was begging for me to bang her... and now she wont respond??? something just doesnt add up...

I need some feedback please here! This is killing me!!!

Thanks guys,
Duke

Also PM me if you would like. Really need some help with my ONE-ITIS!

Thanks

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bro she`s fucking with you.
She sees that you got other girls and she`s pulling the ignore trick to get you back.Also she`ll really make you work for it.DONT RESPOND TO PHONE CALLS AND IGNORE HER FOR ALL THE TIME.She`ll feel she`s losing and you and will start to chase.

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When you realize that rejection doesn`t mean shit you`ll try to find a way how to kick your own ass for being an idiot.

De,

thx for the response. I do feel like ya shes fucking with me... and is kind of playing a game... but also that she is expressing shes done... like shes not interested anymore... when i left her place it was kind of a weird vibe and the night didnt go super well... i also have a feeling she may be seeing some other dude now... which isnt good for me...

still think she will crawl back or is this just over? This has happened before with this girl.... it took like 2 months but she hit me up randomly and wanted to hang out after I stopped talking to her after she blew me off... but maybe this time shes just doesnt see any future and is just done?

your thoughts?

Whether there`s something between you or not,still do what i said.Remember you are in damage zone right now.

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When you realize that rejection doesn`t mean shit you`ll try to find a way how to kick your own ass for being an idiot.

the idea of being a PUA...is that you accumilate as many women as u can handle...or feel you want at one time...lets say u got 5 women in the stable...
ur not gonna get all bent outta shape over one who isnt playing ball..
this is what happens when u focus on one woman..they can sense it...the weakness...and they fucking exploit that weakness..thats what your supposed to be doing to her...hahahahahahahha
plus u should have f closed when u had the oppertunity...im pretty sure its palying a factor in the cold shouldering right now
freeze her out...hook up with other women
she might get back in touch..she might not
fuck it
next

thx again guys for the responses...

jut thought it was interesting and wanted to know when to actually tell a girl that uv been talking 2 and who u seem to really get a long with that u actually like her and that she actually feels the same way?

When does that convo happen lol or does she bring it up? Also i do like this1 obv but i havnt tried to contact her more than 2 texts and 3 phone calls in over 2 weeks....

kinda lame how wed spent so much time on the phone/text/ and now nothing??

something doesnt seem right....but if she does contact me in the future then what do i do??? blow her off or take her back?? is their ever any going back?

thx.
duke

just act like you're living your life.

Send her one last text:
Hey whatsup? I just saw I texted you 3/4 days ago! Guess I'm texting an illegal that stole your phone now. That's too bad, now I can't see those beautiful sparkles you get in your eyes when you see me anymore...

And that's it. She should think: "This guy is just living his life and doesn't need me, although he is 'player'-nice." You didn't notice that she didn't text you back for 4 days. You assume someone stole her phone, because thats the ONLY way a girl wouldn't text you.
Ofcourse I don't know your situation, sometimes it's better to just have a good convo about it, but it all depends...

been about a week and a half and about 3 weeks now since we last talked... she hasnt hit me up and i texter her once "hey you..." no response...

anything else i can do @ this point boys or is it over? im acting like im totally over her and moving on but its not the truth.... i want a second chance and blow this girls mind.... then once shes hooked again, LEAVE her ass.

karmas a bitch...what i get for being a playa i suppose..

dude get over yourself.

if its only some sort of revenge that you want, you are not in the right mindstate.
one-itis is a indicator of a weak man, and you don't want to be weak.

There are enough girls out there, and you say you're are player, so go play some other girls! Believe me, if you meet enough women, there will be some that are just extraordinary!

just wow. Im so happy for this girl. She could see through your shit and left your ass while she didnt give a fuck. smart girl.

I wish you would learn something from this

Ofcourse none of this has to be taken personally by you.
There are just things you need to learn, as everybody.

I mean, a girl leaves you if you are acting like an AFC, being too needy and all that shit.
I had a girl leave me once, and I know why: I was a total AFC. So I can't blame her for being a girl!

What your purpose must be is: Try to understand the logics behind PUA, behind girls. Because when you do, you won't be crying about a girl that leaves you, you will understand. You will become a better man in many girl's eyes and that's way more important than that one girl you're chasing!

Ok the leaving her ass part isnt true.... obv im a little bitter as to what happened and mad at myself for not pulling the trigger. if i could go back in time now i would honestly have no problems F closing her.... and things would be a lot different. So this experience has been very beneficial and I have learned a lot about myself and how quickly women will drop you/leave you for nothing.

it still hurts only because I knew i messed up. i want another crack at her/the situation... to prove to myself and to her that im not an AFC. i also do still like this chick... we had/have a lot in common and we had a lot of fun together for the time wev spent.

im not a guy that goes around playing girls because i like to fuk with their minds. i dont have a low self esteem and thats not why i started talking to this girl or any of the girls i talk 2. lets get that straight. I honestly liked this chick and saw potential... prob another reason why im still so hung up. but i treat females with respect and I am in this to find a girl i can spend time with and love. not to use.

Any other suggestions at this point? I have called her like 3 times (twice the day after leaving her placey and 1once a week later with a text msg, so nothing SUPER needed/AFC.... just wanting to chat.... iv called her plenty of times before like this and she new i wasnt needy... she always called me more then i ever called her... but i would call her/text her..)

Its been another 4 weeks w/o any communication. i have 2 dates lined up with beautiful girls this upcoming week... but there is something about losing this girl that still drives me nuts. i know no other guy is saying/doing the things we did.. will she crawl back? obv i dont like to lose... no1 does... but there just seems like there is so much UNFINISHED business here thats dying to come back out.... will it ever?

Need help guys and thx for the comments!
Duke