Can you ever believe the things women tell you. For instaces, they say they are virgins but you find out she is willing to give it up to other dudes. How can you be better prepare on your feet to identify these type of women? what are your mentality when you are going out to look and identify them as fast as possible?

go look up what asd is, don't expect a girl to tell the truth about anything that would make her look or feel like a slut, even something as small as, do you think that guy looks cute?, or would you ever hold hands on the first date?, those questions could get a lie, even if she would totally suck and swallow on the first date, don't expect her to say so

You can’t all girl are manipulative self serving bitch, that want a man at there feet.

Don’t expect a girl to tell truth about there past. And if they want a relationship they will lie, cheat, so you don’t pull the plug.

For example she goes on the first date with you, and then she goes “ Ive never done sex on the first day that a first”. At this point she wants you to lower your shield, and consider yourself special, maybe is true, maybe he is not.

Im really good seeing if someone is lying, there are books about that, books about body language. You can check it out is the best way out there

Or best thing is don’t ask past question what matters is the present.

women lie.

virtually nonstop.

it's actually the language of women.

talk to one about it, really corner her, lol (a sister, friend, neighbor).

and you will find that they justify this behavior.

women are really good about doing bad things and justifying it.

they almost have an innate (supernatural, almost) ability to twist the truth to the point that they actually buy into their own bullshit.

most women are actively delusional, truth be told.

they construct alternate realities (outside of "the" reality) where they are:

- the most important person on earth
- the most pure, wonderful, virtuous woman ever born
- far more intelligent than they actually are
- ...the list goes on... (it would actually be funny, if it wasn't so sad)

anyway, don't expect honesty from the mouth of a woman. ever.

watch her ACTIONS , BEHAVIORS , MOODS , and BODY LANGUAGE.

those things will tell the truth for her.

it's actually fairly despicable, but i'm a man, and honor and integrity are engrained into my identity to the point where they are who i am. but it's also part of the game.

basically, this has been my progression when it comes to women and trust:

- trusted all women blindly (always got fucked over)

- trusted "special" women blindly (always got fucked over)

- trusted no women anymore (was incredibly angry)

- trusted no women anymore (was disillusioned and lonely)

- trusted no women anymore (wanted to understand)

- trusted no women anymore (perspective on women changed, came to see them for the incredibly flawed and insane creatures that they are, grudgingly accepted the fact that i will never be able to consider a woman who i am in a relationship with to be a friend or confidant)

- moved on with other parts of my life and put women in their proper place (an relatively empty, but pleasurable, amusement)

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Women arent lying more than men... It is just that we dont always understand them.

Thing is, they are telling a truth that is not necessarily a literal truth but the message they wanna get across is always what they need to say.

Like "I have a boyfriend" doesnt mean, that she does. It means "I am not interested, go away without causing me any trouble".

You gotta learn how to read between the lines. Is not as much WHAT she says as WHY she says it.

Tonality, context, body language, choice of words, etc... All of these are of equal importance.

Now you can either be bitter and feel lied to for the rest of your life or you can try to learn to speak girl.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

does it matter so much if women lie?
women and men lie; and not only to others.
we lie to ourselves and often forget that we're doing so.

personally i don't mind if someone else lies, as long as they do it so good, that i cannot detect the lie. life's nicer not hunting for lies, but it angers me when a lie is too obvious.

ezo...you just stole half of what I wanted to say, but I'll repeat to make it sink in their brains(which I doubt it will)

1)men and women lie about the same-approximately 3 lies in ten minutes of conversation(or as it 10 lies in three minutes? - taken from Lie to me) but personal experience also confirms this.

2)Good old question - WHY is she telling me this, will help you a lot

3) David D's-girls will tell you what they think, but they act as they feel.-will help you understand women much better

4)women will tell you their secrets if you appear interested in them as people/curious and non-judgmental. I've had girls in LTRs tell me they've cheated on their current bf (and the bf never found out)-they were very secretive about that, but getting them onto heart-to-heart is simple(one pitfall-take it too far and you'll end up in friend-zone-happened to me too many times...)