Ever since I got into pickup, I promised myself one thing. No matter how good I got, and no matter how hot the girl, I would never steal another man's woman. I know I hate it when it happens to me. It's the worst feeling in the world when your girl who you have worked so hard to get has suddenly lost interest in you and wants someone else, and I sure as hell would never want to do that to anybody. However, about a month ago I met this 9 on a film shoot. We were both the stars and we had to do a few love scenes and such. I tell all about this in another post (for those of you that have read it, I found out the reason she was being so standoffish at the end wasn't that I fucked up, it was because she is in an LTR.) Anyway, we started to develop feelings for each other that day (or at least I did, but I'm pretty sure she did too), and now I have a severe case of one-itis.

So I left that day longing to see her again. I wanted just one more chance to see if we would be good together, just one date, and if it was going to happen, great. And if not, oh well. I thought about her every day. I was so obsessed, I would see her face while having sex with other girls, and it would fuck me up.

Finally (although I had already creeped on her FB before) the movie came out so I could add her without being creepy, so I did, and that's when I discovered she has a bf. I was crushed. Granted, he is an ugly, fat, nerdy son of a bitch (and I think he's also a cop), but still they had been dating for over a year. Then I knew why she had given me those very clear IOIs and a covert invitation to dinner, followed by her merely sitting in her car when she knew I was about to n-close and try to get a day 2.

So I tried to let her go nonetheless. I tried to get other girls and I've had sex with two since I met her, but I'm still not over her. I have to do something about it. I really don't want to steal that guys girl, because I know he will never ever be lucky enough to have a quality girl like that ever in his life and I will, but my selfishness is getting the better of me and I want her. And I'm going to get her.

The only question is, how do I go about pulling this off? It will clearly have to be done from facebook, because that's the only contact I have with her, but what exactly should I do and how open with my intentions should I be? This is a very delicate situation and I feel like I need to handle it with extreme care. If anybody has ever been in a similar situation, how did you go about it? And how do I go about getting her into my bed?

Thanks,

Ethan Hunt

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Hey man, sorry if I offend you but your post seems very arrogant and narcissistic. You're judging her boyfriend on something you wouldn't even know about man, as most of the unrefined men who are pre-pickup may not be as attractive as anyone would guess them to be, but they probably have good personalities, which is what pickup is about (expressing your good qualities rather than bringing down on the bad) . If you're the guy creeping on FB maybe you're the loser rather than her bf.

Anyway everything aside, if you're even able to create a situation with this girl, just follow the game as usual. Except DO NOT bring anything into conversation that would remember her of her boyfriend, take NO verbal recognition of any fact of her having a boyfriend rather than a smile. As soon as you verbally respond the situation becomes real and she will see you as trying to make her cheat.

Good luck with your pickup journey

~ Rory