I have a theory:

This would target mostly up-and-coming PUA's suffering from AA, and would be most effective if they've suffered some type of oneitis in the past.

Let's imagine:

Let's imagine that you want someone you can't have. In your low rAFC state you just can't handle that type of woman. You naturally want her back, but you know it would never work. So what do you do? You get mad, furious, at yourself but also the oneitis in question.

What if we were to channel this anger and frustration? What if we used this as not just motivation, but POWER. Not to "get back" at women, but as a way to improve your circumstances. GET PISSED, MOTIVATED, and get the fuck out of your house.

Think of allllll the promiscuous things she has done. All the times she's cheated on you, times she made fun of you, or talked about other guys she was interested in--- AND WE USE THIS!

But let's not be stupid here:

Do not talk to her. Do not "brag" that you're fucking around. I recommend that you block any ex g/f's e-mail and phone number.

Obviously we don't want any negative energy in interactions, that's not what I'm talking about. What I'm saying is, guys, when you feel INTIMIDATED to even step outside your house... Use the Dark Side. Compare all the shit you've been through, and this will be nothing.

As you progress you won't have a need for the Dark Side anymore, why? You'll have successes, successes that you can look back on to motivate you instead! You'll be a new, happy man livin' the good life. Why are most experienced PUA's so fuckin happy? They have recent successes they can draw energy from, up-and-coming guys do not.

"I find your lack of faith in the Dark Side, disturbing."
-Darth Vader

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Say goodnight to the bad guy! Come on. The last time you gonna see a bad guy like this again, let me tell you. Come on.

Make way for the bad guy. There's a bad guy comin' through! Betta get outta his way!

Nice man. This has merit.

First off I find a few things wrong with this statement. Besides the fact that you mixed two things together. One of the first things you learn in the game is that NO girl is untouchable. Not one.

And it's not so much as the "one-itis" that you're mad at but the fact that you still care for/"love" them after what they did to you.


I have to point out because apparently some people do not see it as obviously. Our little world is filled with nothing but darkness. Everything we do is morally wrong and fueled by nothing other than our humanistic instincts. So saying "use the darkness" is no more useful than being outside on a clear summer day and saying "look into the sun".


To be quite honest, you seem quite grim in all the posts of yours that I've read. Maybe it's you that could use a dose of "the dark side".

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Seduction isn't making someone do what they don't want to do.Seduction is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already.

Sure, once you start growing no girl is untouchable, but I believe his point was (sure I could be wrong) that in rAFC state, you truly can't handle the girl at that point. THAT is true. In rAFC state, you can't handle 95% of the girls around.
I think this is him using the dark side. And, at times, we all need to use it.

To me, it sounds like YOU are pessimistic Krylon. We've encountered each other just the other day too. I truly hope you're not hearing trying to start trouble. I already had to delete one of your threads because we had several complaints about it, people asking for it to be gone.

Are YOU that filled with darkness that YOU want to spread it around?

You misunderstood the purpose of my post. It wasn't to flame nor promote any kind of unkind vibe. I was just stating a view on a subject, not unlike anyone else here.

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Seduction isn't making someone do what they don't want to do.Seduction is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already.

I'm not sure if I'm replying in my own page break? Well I wanted to say that this make's perfect sense to me. Now.... if you are obsessed
enough over one women and you have locked your self down and you are now out of the game , you are now def! considered an average fing chump. You are at fault! You need to take that energy and use it to get out of your own way. The idea has merit , will it work ? maybe , it will turn you around and get you back... out ... side your house and trying for some new girls , women , ladies . how ever you describe , so let her go with whom ever she chooses
all are at risk for a good time. I like this post and give it the thumbs up.

It wasn't anger at the girl that propelled me, but rather anger at my inaction and fear, and how I lost her, despite her offering herself to me, oh, about 30 billion times.

That shit makes you go "FUCK THIS SHIT" and change. A lot.

Man I thought I was the only one doing this stupid shit , I wasted an enormous amount of time and the Titanic attraction was mutual. The only one syndrome is real... or is it ? Time to move on. There are plenty of women out there , you test the waters , you know she's into you . You walk away because ???? you don't get that rush of Drama because your still thinking about the ONLY ONE FOR ME. So now you run around town poisioning your other prospects, Go back to the other women, of course, wait a month or two!!!Don't pay attention to their standoffish stance , it's an act, to protect themselves from being drawn in again and then..... ask them, HOW they are doing? , hell just go back to the ONE and ask her how she's doing, Guess what? That will get you back on track , it's never over!

[quote="Ricknetcom"][quote="Pikeman85"]It wasn't anger at the girl that propelled me, but rather anger at my inaction and fear, and how I lost her, despite her offering herself to me, oh, about 30 billion times.

That shit makes you go "FUCK THIS SHIT" and change. A lot.[/quote]

Man I thought I was the only one doing this stupid shit , I wasted an enormous amount of time and the Titanic attraction was mutual. The only one syndrome is real... or is it ? Time to move on. There are plenty of women out there , you test the waters , you know she's into you . You walk away because ???? you don't get that rush of Drama because your still thinking about the ONLY ONE FOR ME. So now you run around town poisioning your other prospects, Go back to the other women, of course, wait a month or two!!!Don't pay attention to their standoffish stance , it's an act, to protect themselves from being drawn in again and then..... ask them, HOW they are doing? , hell just go back to the ONE and ask her how she's doing, Guess what? That will get you back on track , it's never over![/quote]

Of course , you see your back in the loop , except your ready to finalize the deal . You pretty much know what you want to say? she's really invested in you and you are aware that she isn't getting what she wants and needs from the other men. She feels like you have the answers , ha you will love her like no other. So in essense she's really your girl .You just have to go.. and claim her.

The reason people drop the dark side act after a while is that they dont need to prove anything. It is like, if you are a darksider nobody dares question who you are, your avatar is scary and believable. A good guy can be examined and unless he is solid all of the fake stuff is out in the open. Because, really the dark side is just an act.

Plus your Darth Vader quote is wrong...

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

AA is good, It means you brain has a defence mechanism.

Really guys , have you ever had AA with a girl you knew was BELOW your level ? No , you only get AA with girls ABOVE your level.

Meaning deep down inside you know you do not deserve them , like you do not have enough value for them.

So why run away from AA , just embrace it , it gives you feedback.