Ok first off i just want to say WHAT THE FUCK, i have no idea how this even worked. I've been trying to intentionally blow myself out of the water with 8-10s just to destroy any approach anxiety i have. So yesterday i'm scumming around on OKcupid and i come across a pretty damn cute 8 so i send here this message.

ME: "Obviously you have droves of irritating men message you on this site daily, so i thought i would do you a favor and send you a message. I'm not going to pretend that we have any commonalities based on your self-written description and photos, so i guess ill keep it as simple and raw as possible. You're fucking cute and i'm fucking awesome, obviously this site is for dating and i'm not trying to fabricate some romantic connection just to go on a date with someone who could potentially be boring as fuck."

So yeah no game, please critique this all you want, but remember i'm intentionally trying to blow out so i didn't really give a fuck about this broad. But literally within the hour i get this.

HER: "Good timing. Your message caught my attention just as I was coming to disable my account for a bit.

Text it up I you want to keep in touch

7**-***-****
-Alicia. "

How the fuck did this work and what the hell should i text this girl?

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In college i was a king, 6 years of a shitty relationship ruined me.

You were honest and direct. They love it.

I actually just took the dive and started texting her, keeping the same "i really don't give a fuck" attitude (because i really don't) and she's texting back faster then i can even think. I even got her to text me some pictures, i told her i couldn't lurk her photos now thats she's deleted her account ahah.

This is feeling pretty good.

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In college i was a king, 6 years of a shitty relationship ruined me.

I can feel you. It basically goes the same way in my case....everytime I have this attitude mixed with a bit of aloofness, it works wonders for me. Yet sometimes I don't stay focused and loosen my game....and everything turns shitty.

I think it won't be really hard for you to get to meet her.