this was an interesting one..

in response to my last text when I told her "check your attitude and be sure you're personable when you come pick up your mail and bike"

She said:

Her:Seriously you're the one who ignores me. Sorry for the times I didn't talk to you after we broke up, but it was kinda hard. I feel like you just get satisfaction out of me texting you and you not replying back. I'm just trying to say hi and you dont care. Stop acting like you control me.


couple minutes later...

Her: Thank you for completing the shittiest week of my life...

couple minutes later...

Her: I would call you to talk but obviously its not worth your time.



Thought it was interesting that I only contacted her twice after we broke..the first time was because there was still stuff of hers here, so I told her to come get it. The 2nd time was when she got mail, and I asked for a forwarding address. Other than that, I left her alone and didn't pursue any contact, then out of the blue she starts hitting me up every day.


So...when she thanks me for completing the shittiest week of her life.....is she just seeking my sympathy? Did I do good at not responding to that?

And when she says that she would call to talk, but its not worth my time....Is she just trying to see if I'll say anything in a pathetic attempt to get her to call me? Cuz the way she's acting, I feel she doesn't deserve me to respond, let alone hold an actual conversation with her

its funny bro.. take everything she says as a joke as of right now.. Train yourself to do that.. Once your in a serious relationship with someone then you begin to start to take them serious.

She's begging for sympathy and blaming her shitty week on you.. ahaha. you gotta see the humor in that.

maybe her week has been shitty but she's just trying to use you to lean on until things get better..

your doing fine..

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I did find humor in it as I was reading the text messages, because I'm starting to pick up on things a little more.....And I was also thinking, there's no way she's having a shitty week because of me...yet shes blaming me...That is funny...and it probably annoys her that I'm not giving in to that.

Thanks again

Well I havn't heard from her since yesterday..until just recently.

she texted me...

Her: Hi
Me: Hey
Her: What is up?
Me: There supposed to be a media blackout testing at 2 today
Her: Why?
Me: I dont know..they're supposed to shut off tv and radio for a couple minutes
Her: I hope its the end of the world


I didnt say anything to that....but I figured I did good at controlling the conversation. She asked what was up, so I changed the focus from me, to the broadcast test that was supposed to occur.

Then a half hour later she texted me again..

Her: So, how's your life now that its not over?
Me: Gangsta
Her: LOL...have you heard about a job yet?


I didn't respond, then 10 minutes later she called me...and I did not answer.

When she asks about you finding a job, is she just making casual chitchat or is that a big thing for her? If she leaves you and then wants to come back once you've got a stable job then you shouldn't have anything to do with her in my opinion.

Thats the point, i made 50 post ago lol.. I told him, when she asks him if he found a job reply "no". Even if he has found one.

I've been really busy yesterday so i wasnt around. how's it going

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Everythings good I guess.....I havent heard from her since she asked about the job then tried calling me...I know she's got class for the greater part of the day/evening, so we'll see if she decides to try and talk

Theres going to come a point where she's going to go cold for a weeek or so just to test you.. You have to hold strong,

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I'm holding strong lol

I think that point you speak of, has risen...I haven't heard from her since the other day. However, she's been posting several updates the last couple days about something/someone being cute, sexy, and how she's excited, etc,etc...So I don't know if she met someone, if so, good for her. Or she's just reached a new desperation for attention....which is the vibe I actually get. Could be wrong tho, either way its cool.

she wants you're attention.. Thats not something she would normally do.. SHe hasn't met anyone.. Or maybe she has but she's going to exaggerate it to make you wanna call/text her.. She wants you at the end of the day.

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Well you do make a great point in saying "thats not something she would normally do".....I mean, you obviously dont know the girl at all, but still nailed that one right on the head...She never really displayed herself like that before, which makes it seem more odd, ya know what I mean?

Sure, its possible she met someone...but regardless, I still feel that its more likely that she is really seeking attention.

Thanks for the replies...I'll keep ya posted

She called me today, and I answered...I wasn;t going to...but I ended up doing it anyway..It went something like this..

Me: Hello
Her: Hey, whats up?
Me: Not much, hanging out with family (My grandparents came in town for the afternoon..I haven't seen them in YEARS)
Her: Aw...umm..is..there any mail from my school?
Me: Nah, still havent seen anything, only shit that was here is what I told you last time.
Her: Damnit...Well thank you
Me: You're welcome..
Her: well, I guess I'll talk to you later?
Me: Yeah..I'll see ya




Then I saw she posted something on her tumblr that read...

"I could go for some sex. Shit"



then a few minutes later she posted:



"When you’re sick to the stomach, just pull out the knife.

I gave you everything, and now you won’t even talk to me. Like WTF? Be a mature fucking adult, dude. You are___years old.

WWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF?

Thanks for making me feel like absolutely nothing. Try and grow up."




Then a few minutes after that post, she posted:



"What makes boys think………they can do anything, and get away with it?

You can’t ignore a bitch, and expect her to come back every time.

I am so mad, such a frustrating day."


Did she really think there were going to be no consequences for leaving me? I'm not really interested in being friends with her..And I've told her that a few times before...its all or nothing.

I'm not sure what to think of that one lol...She's lucky I even picked up the phone earlier...She's telling me to grow up, when she was the one that chose to move out and end ties....And when we had the talk before she moved out, I was like "If this is it, then you know...this..is..it..Are you sure you want this? I want you in my life, I love having you here and being with you...but understand that I'll be gone if this is what you want"....So I don't know.......Its kinda confusing me

I don't know why you keep picking up the phone.. good luck dude.

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I wouldn't be surprised if she has an account here. All the better to bait you with. Just move on and stop replying to her texts or picking up her phone calls.

hows it going?

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