Guys,

I find myself in a tricky situation.

There is this girl, she has a boyfriend and they are 40 minutes apart and not seeing each other much. Let me get right to it, I told her I like her, she told me she liked me, things moved on, we hooked up for a week. We had a great week together and her and her boyfriend were doing shit. She felt bad and even I felt bad at times, I try to have morals so I can stick to them and not be the bad guy in situations. Moving forward, we both got really drunk at this frat party, she was very drunk and I was tipsy. Later on that night we had sex, it wasn't great sex as we were both drunk and there was some tension. The next morning she came to my room and said she feels sick and she wants me to move on, get with other girls and that me and her have nothing anymore and she is going to stay and try with her boyfriend.

Now its been a week since this was said, we didn't talk for two days, then we chilled one on one and it was flirty and she said he was hard not to kiss me, didn't talk the next day, and today she said she felt sick and I asked her to come over and let me look after her and she never came, she said she had essays to do and so on and nothing happened and I looked clingy and desperate trying to get her to come over.

1) What the fuck happened? Why did she lose all interest?
2) Why are her and her boyfriend doing better since me and her slept together?
3) How do I get her thinking about me? because all I am doing is thinking about her
4) How do i get over her? When I know she is like me, flirty, witty, smart, sexy...
5) People just say, get over her, how.... what happens if I DONT WANT TO get over her and I want to be with her?
6)I am more athletic, more sporty, better looking than her boyfriend... yet she is with him and me and her don't talk like before

I have her on blackberry and she doesn't text me much but she is always on her phone and people text her, i ask her and she says its her mum and dad and her bf...

before we hooked up, she was flirting with many guys and even seeing them one on one, she says I was special and i was the only one she ever got with... I believe her.

What do you think

you do realize...that if she cheated "with" you, that she is likely to cheat "on" you?

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

I like to think that if she cheated on him with me, that I was good enough to leave him for, and i was differnet

Son, you have a long way to go..


You cant trust those bitches..

no, what it says...is that she is a cheater.

and if (when) you meet her criteria for dissatisfaction in a relationship, she WILL do the same thing to you.

you might have high value this week in her eyes, and low value next week, who knows? women are nuts. but one constant remains...

she is a cheater.

it's about her morals and principles.

THAT doesn't change.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

[quote="Mack 2.0"]you do realize...that if she cheated "with" you, that she is likely to cheat "on" you?[/quote]

This.

OKay this doenst change the fact that this girl, compared to all other girls is one I am interested in. I have a lot of options, girls who are desperate, we all know its a turn off... this girl is something different and I want to accomplish getting her and I want to be with her. She is cute funny and sporty.

I do want her and I want suggestions on how to maybe get her instead of mocking the situation

What is happening now... You are on her string, she contacts you, you are happy... You don't know what to do... She hase the power. Sh uses you. She might use 3 other guys like this.

Don't care for womens words, care for womens body language. Cuase in general they don't know what they want.

She is a cheater, keep that in mind. If you want her make an ultimatum that she must chose.

Boyfriend or you. If she choses boyfriend, end of story never talk to her again.

I made her make an ultimatum, she told me it cant happen again.. she is camping right now with bf...

I also cannot move on , i know i have something for her

and so it seems that you weren't actually better than her boyfriend, you were just a convenient piece of ass.

cut out your heart if you have to. but stop having "feelings" for this cheater-girl.

it can't end well.

if you do decide to move forward, you need to be bold and extremely certain that what you are feeling is love...as opposed to oneitis or infatuation.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Okay but surely being on this gaming site I can game her and give myself a chance...

If you wanted to get her what would you do.....

mac are you saying once a cheater always a cheater? this made me curious

Sorry dude that was a stupid question....

Yes once a cheater always a cheater.... it stays with you for life... if you are referring to the fact that people can change yes... she may not cheat again... but she lives her life knowing she cheated