So guys,

I've been cold approaching and getting first dates (alot). However, I am failing on every one! I fall into the funny guy who makes them laugh their ass off but I initiate very little kino....... I then get no second date I tend to do the interview, have any brothers, where u like to travel, blah blah blah.

Ive realized u have to kiss her on the first date.

So players, how do u get the snl or the kiss on the first date?

PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!

Gambler said something that I try to live by in a video of his "Slow down and smooth out." I am blessed/cursed with a bit of a crazy joker streak. If I don't slow down and smooth out then it goes nowhere fast. She has already seen that you are funny. Keep that up with other people you talk to on the date but when you are talking to her be serious, seductive, and aggressive. This will keep them interested.

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This is very true. But try to touch her onn her shoulder and arms waist etc when u make her laugh. Tthat would help very much in your kino problems.

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K look, I can't say I had this same problem. But I learned, the faster you increase sexuality, the better your date will go.

VERY FIRST THING on your first date
Just go up to her, grab her and put your mouth on her neck and make monster noises, your getting kino, your pretty much kissing her neck already, its playful, it will make her laugh.


after that, a great kiss close I do all the time is this.

Start slow dancing with her out of no where, hold her left or right hand in the air and be like " have you ever slow danced like this?"

then she says no or yes.

You bend her back, and say get ready for a rico swuavey kiss.. Then do it.

Try taking out your dates on weekdays, let's say FRIDAY.


Because if you're having fun you can stay out late with her. If it sucks then you can always say " Ive got a big meeting in the morning and i have to get up early". Or What ever.
with this you can bail out early at 9pm if she turns out to be a skank or a bitch.


Meet her around 7pm in the evening, That way she has already eaten (Money on pocket saved) .. Ladies always feel uncomfortable eating in front of guys that they've just met.. never take them out to dinner unless if you guys already went out atleast three times.


Meet your date on a cool bar, never ever pick her up and have her meet her there.
this way she'll be more comfortable driving her own car and you can make an easy escape if necessary.. pick a table or in the bar that you can sit next to her so that you can make it easy to kino her.



Reminders

1. Before you go out, Dress at your best and make sure you wear a cologne (Brush your teeth and gargle mouth wash for fresh breath).

2. don't say anything stupid and don't fidget (Touching your face is really unattractive, if it itch, HOLD IT)

3. Make her laugh

4.touch her every once in a while "use to emphasize a joke or point" this will show her that you are interested and breaks the ice.

5.You pay for the date, you're the man. (she will talk it to her friends and decide that you're cheap and you'll never get any lovin')

6. don't be nervous, stay calm and relax.(If you're nervous she will be nervous too!) Having fun is attractive.


7. Keep her drinking, buy her a shot to loosen up for the kiss.


If things went pretty well, i'm sure you do. time for k-close.

Move closer towards her (If both of you are in a couch or chair pull her closely towards you), Stare at her eyes seductively, move a little closer, stare at her lips then go for the k-close.




Logistics (It's better if you already planned where to take her for the F-close.)


If both of you are outside and planning to go home, invite her to your home or an after party at a hotel/motel, the trick here is you need a booze at your place or drop by at the liquor store so that you can bring em' back to the motel/hotel.


Just incase LMR( Last Minute Resistance) happens, Freeze out, open the television, change the topic. Make her come to you.


Hope this helps.



Credits to S.T for some ideas




-TheNaturalPlayboy

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