Day 8
Uni work filling up my life, trying to produce music and get my DJ side of things in check and also hitting them gym a fair amount.
I went out on the monday night to a student night, wasn't really feel the vibe not in a good mood danced with a few girls didn't really achieve anything.
I then continued through the week going to uni wasn't in a really good mood all week. Really effects ur game when your not massively positive so i certainlly learn't you've gotta knock urself out of a bad mood when ever possible.
I went out on the Friday night. Some of my girl friends from back home came to visit another girl up in my city. Me and my mate went round to the pre drinking place had started drinking was a really laugh.
My mates had brought this hot girl up with black hair, had briefly met her before but nothing major. Started negging her slighty while drinking was just being playful. I went into the bath room and there she was, heavy eye contact and then we just got with each other really simple and easy haha.
I guess the neging and general attraction must have worked or she was just really up for it.
When then went out and walked down the road to the club. When we got inside we brought some drinks and danced around was really fun. I started dancing with the girl i had kiss earlier as i thought it could lead to more fun stuff later. We got closer and closer and then began kissing again continued to get with each other and dance all night long.
I moved her around the club but we was still linked the my mates that had all come up together on some girls night out. I have been reading the "sex god method" i found a massive flaw in my game is being the really alpha domant kinda male. So tonight i said to myself was the night i was gonna roll it out!
We walked to another room and on the way there was a wall by the door I pushed her up against it kissed her and in the middle pull away and began to walk away... she grabbed me and pulled back.
This domance stuff was really working was impressed. We then walked into another room there was drum & bass going mad and everyone was loving it. By the side was some "booths" where you could sit down. We sat down in the booth and i continued the alpha male approach to things i kissed her kneck which she loved. She started feeling my cock through my jeans and i started rubbing her pussy while talking dirty to her. After this the sexual tension was massive i thought i was in.
by this point i thought surely shes coming home with me when ever i say it. I then said "lets go back to mine" she was like ok but we have to find the others.... I completely forgot they where on a girls night out haha.
When went back to the group and continued to dance, touch each other etc was really good. But she wasn't coming home with me..
I think i should have moved her around the club more maybe got some drinks unsure. But i feel the fact they had came to the city as a group made it harder for me to take her home.
Anyways we later left the club and went back to where they were all staying i slept in a bed with her and her mate and the rest of the girls where there too but was really hard to do anything as everyone was in the room haha.
Few lessons learn't
*Just because things get a little sexual doesn't mean uve got her coming home with you.
* If it seems like it isn't happening move on
Things that worked
*Dominance! being alpha is the most important thing totally overlooked by so many people
* Get to the gym feel good about urself
* Take more risks they really will pay off after all women want a man not a women.... all right not all women do but ye haha!
